A guy forcefully kissed me yesterday? :/?

[Anonymous]

Basically I'm still a virgin and a guy forcefully kissed me yesterday! , I felt disguised because I expected my first kiss to be with someone special but... :(
I'm so depressed what should I do? I don't even like this guy...
(The kiss lasted about 7 sec , I tried to push him away but he held me so hard that I wasn't able to do anything and then later I somehow managed to free my self and I almost cried but he didn't take that a big deal) am I still considered a innocent girl or am I bad?
(. he's the first guy to touch me :/ )

[Kiwedin]

Whether or not you have been sexually active or romantically involved with someone does not determine your innocence. No one has the power to change who you are as a person but you. You are not bad!
I'm really sorry that you're first kiss was wasted on that jackass, but kisses are just kisses, they don't change anything about you unless you let them. However, you have every right to feel the way you do because no one should ever force themselves upon you.
What he did is actually against the law, it's a sexual offence. No one is allowed to touch you without your consent. You can press charges against him depending on how serious you felt the situation was, if your safety is a concern, you have the law on your side.
Something similar happened to me, when I was about 13, a boy in my school slapped my ass and cornered me against the wall, he tried to touch my boobs (what little boobs I had at age 13) and I punched him in the face. If he tries anything with you again, punch him or slap him, and if you get in trouble, at least you have a really good reason. You were being sexually harassed.
Hope you overcome this! Don't let losers change your opinion of yourself. xoxo

[Asker]

My parents are forcing me to marry him bz he's a rich guy and he's almost 9 years older than me. I told my parents I didn't like him and they're are not considered about my opinion and this guy said me alike he will suicide if I leave him.. what should I do?
He's trying to touch me forcefully...

[Kiwedin]

Wow, this is extremely wrong. You shouldn't be forced into anything you don't want to do.
How old are you? What country do you live in?
Do what you think is best for you and your well-being, I think you're right to leave him. He obviously does not respect you and is willing to take advantage of you, he's using suicide as a scare tactic. What he does is not a reflection of your actions, but of the type of person he is. He really does not sound like a good person, please look for help elsewhere if your parents won't listen to you.

[foreverfree000]

i completely agree with you!!!:)

[Anonymous]

of course you are still considered innocent!!! i am so sorry your first kiss was wasted like that but on the other side there is nothing you can do about it.. thank god you can still kiss someone after your first kiss so your second kiss won't be like that (hope so!:)) if i was you i was you i was going to kill him! okay not kill him but he was going to go home with a bruised eye at least! lol:)

[Asker]

My parents are forcing me to marry him bz he's a rich guy and he's almost 9 years older than me. I told my parents I didn't like him and they're are not considered about my opinion and this guy said me alike he will suicide if I leave him.. what should I do?

[Opinion Owner]

you should do what you want!!! its your future we are talking about and think about it! if he was capable of forcing you into kissing him can you imagine how he is like? like wtf forcing a girl into kissing you? also he is much older than you and if you dont like him just dont hear what they say.. i mean if you are an adult you they can force you into anything! and plsss just dont do it if you dont like him or want to bc they said so! its not their life and it is really selfish of them doing like you dont have a word in YOUR life!:)

[lumos]

In my opinion, that doesn't count as a first kiss. That only counts as sexual assault, since you didn't consent to it. :/ Is it a guy you know, like a friend? If so, try to avoid him at all costs, and maybe tell your friends about what happened so that they'll avoid him too.
This is not something you had any control over, so don't blame yourself for it.

[Asker]

My parents are forcing me to marry him bz he's a rich guy and he's almost 9 years older than me. I told my parents I didn't like him and they're are not considered about my opinion and this guy said me alike he will suicide if I leave him.. what should I do?
He's trying to touch me forcefully...

[Rapunzel2490]

Next time he tries that, you open hand strike that douche as hard as you can in the nose and get out of there.

[Alicialaurenn]

He's wrong and vile.

This was not you're fault you're innocent he's guilty.

Please be safe and try to stay away x