Guys: why do you stare at girls in class?

[Anonymous]

Do you only stare at girls you find attractive?
Does it mean a guy likes you if you always catch him staring?
What does it mean when I always make eye contact with a guy and he looks away quickly?
What does it mean when he DOESN'T look away and keeps on looking at me for a while?

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+1 y

how to tell if a guy likes you FROM HIS STARES?

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+1 y

This guy used to try to flirt with me and I found him annoying from the beginning but then one day he made fun of me and it hurt my feelings and it made me dislike him even more. Then he would be like "why do you hate me?"
I have class with him AGAIN and he always just gazes at me sadly...
Does he like me?

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+1 y

I make eye contact with this other guy a lot
He looks at me when he first walks to his seat and again before he leaves Like he's checkin on me?

[YourFutureEx]

Do you only stare at girls you find attractive?
Yes

Does it mean a guy likes you if you always catch him staring?
Most probably

What does it mean when I always make eye contact with a guy and he looks away quickly?
Shy guy (potential lover)

What does it mean when he DOESN'T look away and keeps on looking at me for a while?
Open flirt (who's doing it right way)

how to tell if a guy likes you FROM HIS STARES?
No idea Ma'am.

[Asker]

The guy who stares at me looks away sometimes and other times we just stare at each other for a while

[YourFutureEx]

Positive Signs :-)

[Asker]

Cool. My friend thinks he's just trying to make me want him but I don't know. I try hard to make it apparent that i dont think much of it. he came up and stood behind me and I could practically FEEL him on me he was soooo close

[YourFutureEx]

Congratulations :)

[Asker]

Thanks. Although sometimes he seems rude?

[YourFutureEx]

Typical guy's behaviour :-)

[YourFutureEx]

Thanks :)

[Asker]

No problem!

[HoneyBea406]

There’s this guy in a couple of my classes and he keeps staring at me and when I catch him he doesn’t look away, he keeps staring and it gets so awkward so I’m the one who ends up looking away. I’ve heard rumors that he’s gay but I’m having doubts about it. Why won’t he stop staring? Keep in mind I’m in 8th grade and middle schoolers usually aren’t that complicated lol

[YourFutureEx]

@HoneyBea406 next time you catch him staring, do that "sup nod" to put pressure on him to either look away or to explain his staring.

[HoneyBea406]

I’ll try it

[DaddyRollingStone]

Its cause you're pretty, maybe if you catch us looking you'll take notice of us (in a positive way)

Thats what I want at least. Need to be able to look at her to know if she's pretty first.

[Asker]

What are you thinking when you're lookin

[DaddyRollingStone]

"damn, she's good looking... Wish she would look at me." Hahaha

[Asker]

And if the girl makes eye contact?

[Anonymous]

OMG you have no idea how much this happens to me haha! I mean sometimes I catch guys staring at me from across the room NUMEROUS times in one class period. It's weird, isn't it? I bet it's because they like you. Sometimes, shy guys will not stare at all but you can find out that they like you through friends.

[Asker]

hmm well in my situation, I used to like this kid way way back lol but he rejected me. recently he talked to me during class and was v flirty and we kinda reconnected I guess. But I don't know if he remembers the fact that he rejected me? But yeah now he looks at me a lot and stuff?

[Opinion Owner]

Well I mean... he likes you, that's for sure. Why would he be flirty if he didn't like you? When did he reject you?

[Asker]

4 years ago in middle school!!

[Opinion Owner]

Well he probably forgot. Guys will be guys. They forget things a lot. But I mean, yeah he likes you I think! For me, this new guy who is SUPER CUTE keeps staring at me and he's been looking at me every day since the school year started. I knew he was attracted to me and it's been like this ever since, even now. He looks at me every day. And he's cute :) When I lock eyes with him, he'll be looking at me already and he looks away after we lock eyes for like a second. And he keeps doing it. What does this mean?

[Asker]

Omg you should talk to him!! But i think that means he's into you. The same thing happens with me. We lock eyes. I bet he feels whatever you're feeling do i say go for it! Try to talk to him :)

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah haha :) I'm just so busy with everything else like school, homework, after school stuff, that I don't have time to think about it! And I get shy around attractive guys haha. I'm a total party animal around everyone else but when it comes to guys I like, I'm just like uuummmm what am I supposed to say? Lol

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I are in the same class he always stare at this girl he rejected and saying to me "What the fuck is wrong with that girl what is she doing what the fuck style is she trying to achieve look at her!!"

[Asker]

Oh. well that's another story lol he stares becsuse he's making fun of her and shit talks her.
that's really mean actually. I wouldn't find that attractive at all.
what happens when you guys break up? Is he gonna do the same to you?
but anyway im talking about guys who are alone and dont talk as theyre looking

[Opinion Owner]

They weren't together at all he just rejected her never like her before so that's a different story.
Maybe he knows doing that will make me feel better and make me not jealous at all that's why he's doing it :)
I don't know only he knows. Sometimes he looked at her too when I'm not around not talking to anyone but I guess in his head he's thinking something stupid about that girl.

[Anonymous]

LOL omg this happened to me today too... it was at a martial arts class there's this one guy who keeps on coming up to me and talking with me before the class starts and then today while we were practicing he was just staring at me and i looked at him but he just kept staring... kept on staring and then copying the moves i was doing, so at first i thought he just wanted tips for martial arts but he kept on staring today... and staring... and staring ugh i don't know if he likes me or what but if he does im not sure how to deal with it cuz i already have a boyfriend but I don't know how to tell him if he does like me...

[Frost_Byte]

Sometimes we stare because we hav already decided we like u, but sometimes we stare for evaluation (deciding wether or not we like u). But if this has happened more than once, i can safely say that he already likes u

[Asker]

Hmmmm. I'm so self conscious so I feel like he's faking fun of me or its all in my head. I get told im pretty but my confidence is wayyyyy low

[Frost_Byte]

Guys dont fake attraction unless they hav something to gain from it. But trust me, u hav nothing to worry about. This guy wouldn't be staring at u in the first place if he didn't think u were pretty.

[Asker]

okay :) thanks

[Asker]

He watches me as i walk by but now he looks down quickly to make it seem like he wasn't

[Frost_Byte]

That most likely means that he is a shy guy and he doesn't want u to know he is looking at u. If u really want this guy u may hav to suck it up and ask him out yourself, cuz he's not gonna do it, thats for sure.

[Asker]

Haha he's pretty popular though and we talked and he was very flirty and he actually listened to me and responded to everything like he really cared what i had to say which made me feel good. But we haven't really had the chance to talk after that.
I think he wanted to say something a couple times cause i had to go up near him and he scrunched up his eyebrows and then he stretched out his leg to where I couldn't walk where i needed to but I was soo nervous cause i was in front of everyone and i just kinda looked at his leg and smirked until he moved it. I'm dumb.
I'm sorry that was so long I just needed to vent

[Klaatu51]

ehrn i was in school... i NEVER did that.

but anyway, guys tend to stare girls they find attractive mostly... indeed

[NerdInDenial]

Yup, I will round about stare at attractive girls. If he gives you repeated stares, then he likes you.

[Asker]

today I walked past him and he stared at my face and then I turned around to say something to someone and I caught him turning around to get one last look at me and so we made eye contact.

[NerdInDenial]

Oh yeah, he's into you!

[Asker]

Well, I used to like this kid way way back but he rejected me. recently he talked to me during class and was very flirty and we kinda reconnected I guess. I don't know if he remembers the fact that he rejected me? But ya now he looks at me alot?
I heard him start to say something to his friend about me when i was leaving the other day " dang dude she just..."

[NerdInDenial]

He may have but regrets it.

[Asker]

Maybe.
Thanks for answering!

[Anonymous]

If I've never seen her before I try to examine her to see if she has nice features. If I know how she looks like and I like how she looks then I'll look a lot to admire her.

[Asker]

Like... every day?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, if she's attractive.

[Asker]

What are you thinking when you're lookin

[Opinion Owner]

I juse examine her thinking if she has any nice features

[Asker]

okay cooool

[Anonymous]

Generally because they are attractive

[Asker]

cool!

[sizedoesnotmatter]

cuz i want here to do my homework

[Asker]

no
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[Asker]

wait its kinda funny cuz this guy came onto me just so i could do his hw (which i didnt)

[notverycreativeguy]

To make you ask questions such as these.

[Asker]

guys would really take time out of his day to try to get me to think about them? sounds sketchy. do guys really do this

[notverycreativeguy]

No, we don't. >.> some jerks might do, but that's a minority.
Staring doesn't always have a reason, I sometimes stare at girls randomly who I neither like nor check out. In most cases it means the girl's attractive though

[Asker]

Do u stare at the same girl everyday