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I joked about his size and he got angry and then insulted my breast size was he serious or just upset? (Page 3)
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Lol are you kidding please? you were waiting him to hide your truth when you have naked him in front of everyone
"He did call me a bitch which hurt me. I dont know whose wrong me or him. How can we fix this? "..
you are the wrong one and i dont know why you dont see it, you started this so you have to apologize
You're were being a bitch. You were in front of his friend and completely humiliate him, no wonder he was so angry.
Why was you so rude and mean to him? Cannot you just smile or something?
You shouldn't be worried if he really mean or not but search a way to excuse to him.
First most guys have no idea how big they are. They have only seen there own and those in porn, and most guys honestly think that they are small. So you hit an almost universal trigger, and it is something that might just end your relationship. Yes guys are definitely that sensitive and you may have just crushed his self esteem.
Can you fix this, perhaps, but as it was done publicly it will be very difficult and he may never trust you again.
You are an idiot if you make jokes about a guys dick... you are obviously immature...
And you also seem selfish...
This is one thing girls shouldn't joke about. It's kind of like a guy making fun of a girls weight. You just need to leave some things alone.
This is such an accurate reply. It's actually like the exact same thing.
you are entirely at fault here. this was all you. if you want to fix this you need to stop saying guys have a tiny dick, its like him saying you have a loose vagina. does it hurt that i said that?
now think how he feels. you hurt him in the worst way possible...
its up to you now how you make up to him.
That's why you just don't joke about that sort of thing.
How can you not know that dick size is the ONE THING every guy gets insecure about? Especially when you say something like that in front of other people? If he had randomly said you were flat-chested you would've been provoked to say something rude back, too. I don't understand how people can say such horrible things about each other and then claim they're in love.
Him calling you a bitch was unnecessary and the remark about you being flat-chested was just cruel, but what did you expect?
You insulted him, of course you're going to get insulted back, even if it was a joke you shouldn't have said that, especially in front of friends.
I mean it is rude in my opinion. Just think about it the other way around, what if you were with a group of people and he said "i'm surprised i've been with her so long, especially since she's so flat chested". You may not have did it on purpose or meant it as bad as it came out but in my opinion it's definitely hurtful.
Also we can't tell if you're flat chested or not lol but he was most likely just using it as a comparison because he was mad though.
never insult the penis, that's literally a below the belt attack whether joke or not, I mean this is kind of common sense by now, unless you are immature.
It can be tricky when joking about a persons appearance, girls really don't like it, because they know they pride themselves on how they appear to men. He shouldn't have "retaliated" though. He should have just said he didn't appreciate it, and not to joke about that sort of thing. Even if he doesn't like your boobs, it's not something you just say "in retaliation", that usually means its a relationship built on lies
I wouldn't say all guys are sensitive about it, but clearly he is. If he was secure in his size he'd probably laugh along too. He retaliated and that wasn't fair, but maybe you just need to apologise and explain you didn't realise this was a difficult topic for him.
Ummm yep... The first time my first girlfriend saw it, I wasn't really "fully grown" but I didn't know I was gonna grow more... And she giggled and asked if that was all... It crushed my spirit and she tried to make up for it... But ouch that left a scar.
It always does, my friend. And no amount of “I’m sorry” will make it better.
It doesn't matter what your intentions are. Words are powerful. Words and how you say them can make you come across a jerk. Especially in a jokingly manner it can make you sound like you're making fun of them.
Worst of all, you shamed him in front of his friends and whether he has a small dick or not, there's always negative connotations associated with it, and you made him insecure.
He probably just took it to offense. He didn't see it as a joke the way you did. I dont think It was wrong to call you flat chested in response. However he should not have called you a bitch. That was a bit too much. It was just a misunderstanding
you were way out of line apologize but i would be surprised if he does not leave you
That was no joke, that was just rude and uncalled for, especially in front of guests. I don't blame him.
You should know it's never a joke about a man's penis. He had every right to attack back in the same way you attacked him... but commenting on your size.
You owe your boyfriend an apology... and a BJ.
Most men can't take dick jokes, it's like the male equivalent of calling a girl fat (they can't help but feel insecure even if it's a joke and even if it's not true).