I'm a 23 year old virgin. No particular reason as to why, just that I haven't had a long enough relationship to get to experience having sex with someone that I know truly cares about me vice versa. Being a virgin doesn't define me. Yes it's apart of who I am and I'm proud of it but it is what it is.. thats it.
However, that doesn't mean I haven't fooled around with guys. It always comes to a point where they either distance themselves or remain friends when it's time for that subject to come up.
Hey. Is it helpful? Yes. I know that they were in it for one reason only. On to the next one. It's helpful but sometimes frustrating.
2 guys. Each lasted month. 1st cheated on me/two timed me. The other ended up not being ready to be in a first relationship.
That being said, there's a guy whos 6 years older. I've known for a few years. Just recently reconnected. Is a silent not so open kind of guy. Knows I'm a virgin. Still hangs out. We've fooled around. Spent several weekend nights at his place. Or just chilled and done nothing sexually and hung out and stayed the night. Always hanging out at his place at night. Never really follows through on spending time with each other outside during the day. Has given me oral numerous times without me asking or hinting for it or asking for anything in return. Never pushy.. Haven't been on a date though
He's hot and cold. I always initiate texting and conversation. He's done it maybe 3 times. Usually hang out at his place every other weekend. When were in bed... Some nights cuddling is his thing.. rarely. Other nights it's just nothing. No cuddling. No touching just sleeping. Hell cuddle his dog more than me lmao.
Not sure how he feels or what he wants. But we always end up still hanging out. He's hard to read.
Anybody able to give some perpective?
Is this worth it.
I was always told if a guy is into you. They'll pursue you. They'll go after your. Court you. Whatever. They dig yout they'll show it.
Thanks in advance.
However, that doesn't mean I haven't fooled around with guys. It always comes to a point where they either distance themselves or remain friends when it's time for that subject to come up.
Hey. Is it helpful? Yes. I know that they were in it for one reason only. On to the next one. It's helpful but sometimes frustrating.
2 guys. Each lasted month. 1st cheated on me/two timed me. The other ended up not being ready to be in a first relationship.
That being said, there's a guy whos 6 years older. I've known for a few years. Just recently reconnected. Is a silent not so open kind of guy. Knows I'm a virgin. Still hangs out. We've fooled around. Spent several weekend nights at his place. Or just chilled and done nothing sexually and hung out and stayed the night. Always hanging out at his place at night. Never really follows through on spending time with each other outside during the day. Has given me oral numerous times without me asking or hinting for it or asking for anything in return. Never pushy.. Haven't been on a date though
He's hot and cold. I always initiate texting and conversation. He's done it maybe 3 times. Usually hang out at his place every other weekend. When were in bed... Some nights cuddling is his thing.. rarely. Other nights it's just nothing. No cuddling. No touching just sleeping. Hell cuddle his dog more than me lmao.
Not sure how he feels or what he wants. But we always end up still hanging out. He's hard to read.
Anybody able to give some perpective?
Is this worth it.
I was always told if a guy is into you. They'll pursue you. They'll go after your. Court you. Whatever. They dig yout they'll show it.
Thanks in advance.
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