Can a cute petite "nice girl", be considered "sexy or hot" from a man mindset?

[Anonymous]

I'm curious about understanding on how men perceive a cute, nice girl vibe woman. I get a lot this, "you are cute, baby face, innocent, etc", sometime's a good thing. Other times younger males hit on me, which is not confortable neither appropriate. I know media influences a lot on this stereotype of "sex sells", and how us women might portrait beauty standards.

Do you think a girl can be considered cute, perky and feminine and at the same time "hot or sexy", meaning she's sexually desired as well?

Do you think these terms can go along or are they mutually exclusive?

[Vegas_Nightshade]

Well apart from age differences and the fact I'm happy married, I'd say that yes a woman of this description may be attractive and deemed "hot". That's more based on preferences than anything, but personality hours a long way and can either push favorably or negatively towards anyone.

Some guys don't care about that and may at first seem shallow when it comes to how women look. They may find if you're reasonably thin and relatively a "bombshell" themselves a little intimated and afraid to confront you on that.

Just own it and be yourself. The right person will likely see "all" of you and look beyond.

I have no doubt you'll find someone in time.

[God_of_Thunder]

A cute, perky, nice girl can absolutely be hot, and/or sexy. It's all about the context.

Personally, I am attracted to cute, petite girls. When I see them, I'll notice their face, eyes, and smile, and think "she's really cute". Then I'll look at her ass, and legs, and think "Damn, that's a really hot ass".

If I was lucky enough to see said girl in an intimate setting, such as if she was naked, and we were going to have sex; I definitely would not be thinking "cute" at that moment. I would be thinking how amazingly sexy, and desireable, she is.

[adamjanovic]

I definitely fit into the "cute," "petite," "nice girl" category, and I get hit on all the time (which actually isn't so great because I'm married). I look younger (I'm 27 but look about 22, 23), so a lot of younger guys do try to hit on me, but also guys my age and older (sometimes A LOT older). I'm 5'1" so I'm pretty short, but not all guys only like tall girls who look like supermodels. Even tall guys like short girls, my husband is 6'1." What they don't want are girls who are taller than them! I think cute, petite girly girls are just as popular with the men as the tall supermodel types.

[btbc92]

Yes, depending who is attracted to her. But if they are just lusting after you it's a road of heartbreak and him using you for sex until he gets bored and finds another sexually attractive girl. You want a guy who gives YOU his heart for the right reasons, not because you got the body he wants in a woman to have sex with. You want a man who is willing to stay with you even if your not what the media portrays, your sexy, cute and confident for his eyes and his only.

[deraz24]

I know how you feel but I've been called both, it could work nd depends on certain looks you give off

[MatthewCurtis]

Oh, absolutely. 1000%. I've always been attracted to the cute girl. Never had interest in the stereotypical hot girl, cause usually that's accompanied by a certain personality trait or lifestyle that doesn't really match my own. My girlfriend is someone I'd describe as the cute, beautiful, nice girl type and all the connotations that come with it. But with that attraction comes an obvious sexual desire. I tend to reserve the words 'hot' and 'sexy' for more intimate circumstances, in the heat of the moment. Basically, anyone you're attracted to, or in love with, probably fits both areas. Plus, I can imagine a kink for a lot of men in the bedroom department would be the concept of the good girl gone bad. A girl he's seen in a way no one else could ever have imagined. Just another benefit of being a cute girl.

Hope this has been helpful.

[meatballs21]

A cute, perky and petite girl is about as desirable as it gets IMHO.

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Small in all the right places is extremely sexy, it's like sexual dimorphism turned all the way up.

[theharlequin]

Yes. The key is to develop multiple layers of character. Most 'cute girls' are shallow and one dimensional, often due to youth or immaturity. Genuine, mature sexual appeal requires a depth of character that offers a playground to explore. Any girl who developes herself in such a way will be sexy, whether she's a 'cute girl' or not

[Mofunfour20]

They fit together. But in my head I guess Im more along the lines of saying cute or fit over sexy unless I can't help it. I gotta sister, a respect thang ya see?

[Anonymous]

I'll tell you from my personal experience..
Girls who i thought were cute.. i become in relationship with them and after i taught them how to behave sexy in bed, they made a huge improvement and they become so fucking sexy and irresistible.

Hot and sexy can go after a bang i don't think i can fell in love with these girls.

[Dim_121]

Yes she can be both. Especially if you have a boyfreind. You can be the cute girl and when your alone you can still be hot and sexy for him.

[Pyrofox]

The term sexy is based off of a persons aura, personality and how they hold themselves.

[reixun]

Any girl (if she's decent looking) can be sexy with a good pair of heels and a slutty dress.

[es20490446e]

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[Puppylove94]

i get this a lot too lol the right guy will find you cute and sexy.

[SuicidalTeen]

Yeah, but I usually would say cute (still in a good way)

[Guy_No1]

of course you can be seen as sexy and hot and desirable, , I love petite girls.

[Anonymous]

One look at you and I could answer this question. Some smaller perky girls are hot, some are twelve year old boys with a vagina. For you? I don't know

[Bandit74]

Yeah she can, especially if she wears lingerie.

[Ninja21]

Those 2 qualities can get along pretty well.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Yes. At least from mine.

[StickStickity13]

Hot is also a lot about attitude and essence.

[Anonymous]

You can have a cute face and a sexy body

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Pics please

[Anonymous]

She gotta booty,