Is it normal that I caught my cousin checking out my butt?

[Anonymous]

ok, over news years I saw one of my cousins on my mums side of the family. He's only a few years older than me and we usually only see each other a few times a year at holidays or birthday gatherings etc. we don't really talk though and haven't in years, but when we were together (with the rest of the family) I saw him check out my backside. For some reason I didn't realise at first because guys have done this to me before and I didn't read deeply into it. its kind of weird, and the idea makes me uncomfortable. Like I said we barely see each other and don't really talk, so am I overreacting by thinking it's weird? Is it a normal guy thing, especially considering we're not closely related? Or am I right to feel uncomfortable with this? Thanks

[dolemite68]

ya its normal, if he grabbed your butt thats one story, I have a few girl cousins i rarely see that are really cute that i've checked them out before and I have to remind myself we're related and I cringe a bit after but if we weren't related and she was just some stranger on the street i'd think they were cute. I wouldn't worry about it.

[Lovelinefan]

I wouldn't say his actions are creepy or inappropriate. You're family so of course acting on any of those impulses or attractions would be out of line, but it sounds like you're not close with each other, so look at it more like he's another guy in your school or at work who you caught staring at your butt.

[Samoancupcake101]

haha it's a normal guy thing my cousins do the same thing so don't worry

[Oneboy]

Well I use to do it but it's just how guys are wired like my close sister or family no but long distance I caught myself a couple times I felt disgusted but life goes on you got ass don't wear yoga pants around him

[Anonymous]

related or not guys are going to check out attractive girls and their bodies , its just how we are and its not weird, guys are different. and its something girls gotta get used to.

[Anonymous]

I think this is pretty normal. Your cousin most likely has no interest in making any advances on you and is just checking out a hot girl like he would anyone else

[Anonymous]

I think so