Lmao this isn't the case really, it's more women are turned on by the thought of being strongly desired, so strongly a man can't control himself, a man would fight for her, just because he wants that p*ssy, or he loves her that much , probably the latter, that emotional gratification turns women on, wow women love this, but don't over do it or she will think you are a crazy psycho, women are less sexual than men, we are thinking she really likes It when I'm a controlling jerk, but to her it means the opposite you care about her a lot so much even.
asker... i see you are engaged. are you sure you like him? just... try to not commit a bad decision for shame of dealing with the problem. Maybe he just needs an warning to care more about you also...
It's because it would kill women to like a guy for the right reasons.
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People are overcomplicating this, you're attracted to possessive men because they're protective, and basic biology will teach you that women find protective men attractive. I doubt it has anything to do with your dad...
Most likely its because you didn't have a good father figure or a present father in most of your life. Same goes with guys who had an absent mother or a bad mother.
Lately possessive men have come back in vogue. Earlier they were considered uncouthe Neanderthals... not any more it seems. U r missing a father figure... thats y I think.
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your relationship with your father definitely plays a role. its also your mental issue with masochism.
You've had a relationship with your dad? For how long? How far did it go? Did anyone else you know now/knew then find out? Also, how would you define a "possessive" relationship?
Nah, women don't like it that extreme, it's a fantasy, if anything, these things show a women you care, show her you care=long term partner, long term partner=safe to have sex with=excited by his passion for her. Watching to much porn will make you think it's a purely sexual thing, well for guys it is, but for women it's not.
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maybe you just like to be dominated sexually and you are horny most of the time?
Lmao this isn't the case really, it's more women are turned on by the thought of being strongly desired, so strongly a man can't control himself, a man would fight for her, just because he wants that p*ssy, or he loves her that much , probably the latter, that emotional gratification turns women on, wow women love this, but don't over do it or she will think you are a crazy psycho, women are less sexual than men, we are thinking she really likes It when I'm a controlling jerk, but to her it means the opposite you care about her a lot so much even.
@Aconfusedguy90 i liked your answer, makes sense. Asker probably never felt really wished and thats what she wants.
asker... i see you are engaged. are you sure you like him? just... try to not commit a bad decision for shame of dealing with the problem. Maybe he just needs an warning to care more about you also...
I like him. I just sometimes wish he can show me how much I mean to him
Most women have a little submissive trait but when it's too much than it can be other issues , maybe your into that lifestyle
Maybe because your father was possessive of you when you were a child?
I think that'll fade. I used to like it too till it got beyond creepy stalkerish.
you desire a real man you want a solid rock nothing wrong with that im very possessive but never abusive
It's because it would kill women to like a guy for the right reasons.
People are overcomplicating this, you're attracted to possessive men because they're protective, and basic biology will teach you that women find protective men attractive. I doubt it has anything to do with your dad...
That may be a factor in it that you don't have a strong male role model so your brain is telling you to date a person like that
Most likely its because you didn't have a good father figure or a present father in most of your life. Same goes with guys who had an absent mother or a bad mother.
Lately possessive men have come back in vogue. Earlier they were considered uncouthe Neanderthals... not any more it seems. U r missing a father figure... thats y I think.
your relationship with your father definitely plays a role. its also your mental issue with masochism.
im a lot like you too. i would love a girlfriend or a future wife who is a little possessive. not too much
because you feel like you need to be controlled.. you find controlling idiots, hot
Mmm...
probably have daddy issues too
You feel safe that he loves you so much that he'll newer leave. It might be related to your relationship with your father
Maybe you're just genetically attracted to alpha males.
Well what was it like between your mother and your father?
he was an ass to her, always cheated on her
Was he possessive too?
No he wasn't
this is really unhealthy and can turn violent quickly.
You've had a relationship with your dad? For how long? How far did it go? Did anyone else you know now/knew then find out?
Also, how would you define a "possessive" relationship?
That's not a question for normal people to answer in my opinion. There are websites that'll analyse your situation and give you good answers.
men loves big boobs ladies..
women loves possesive guys..
its natural... like as doggy style sex...
Do you want the guy to do things like order at restaurants for you, and get angry when you talk to other guys? Sounds like 50 shades.
Nah, women don't like it that extreme, it's a fantasy, if anything, these things show a women you care, show her you care=long term partner, long term partner=safe to have sex with=excited by his passion for her. Watching to much porn will make you think it's a purely sexual thing, well for guys it is, but for women it's not.