So my ex boyfriend broke up with me not too long ago. He told me he didn't wanna be with me anymore. I deleted him off all my social networks straight away. However, since my snapchat's stories are public, he still looks at my snapchat stories, every single snaps. I dont wanna block him because i think that's just too extreme but it also leaves me confused as hell. What does this mean? Does he miss me or am i reading way too much into this? Thanks!
My ex still looks at my snapchat. What does this mean?
My ex still looks at my snapchat. What does this mean?
There are a few possible explanations for why your ex is still looking at your snapchat. Maybe they're just curious about what you're up to and how you're doing. Maybe they still have feelings for you and are hoping to rekindle the relationship. Or maybe they're just trying to make you jealous.
If your ex is just curious about you, then there's no need to worry. They're probably just trying to keep up with your life and see how you're doing.
If your ex still has feelings for you, then they might be hoping to get back together. If you're not interested in getting back together, you can just ignore their snapchats or even block them.
If your ex is just trying to make you jealous, then you can take the opportunity to make them jealous too. Snap a photo with a new romantic interest or post a status update about how happy you are without them. Whatever you do, don't give them the satisfaction of seeing that their attempts to make you jealous are working.
He may miss you. Nobody gets over someone that quick. So he's gonna keep checking on you and see if you found someone better, if you're happy and you moved on, or trying to see where you are and how you're doing without him. It always starts off as you being upset for a few days maybe, while he's fine. Then you slowly start feeling better while he slowly starts to feel bad about it and sad and lonely. He's probably realizing what he lost and he's curious about what you're up to.
Are you hot? Serious question. It might be an ego thing for him knowing that he had you, maybe he brags about this to other guys.
People break up all the time for many different reasons. That doesn't mean that he didn't love you, it could mean that he couldn't see you in the future he wanted for himself, or couldn't see himself in the future that you wanted, and had to let you go.
If I were in his shoes , i can't forget my girlfriend in that short period of time , so I will check her account sometimes , that is normal. But don't overreact about it.
Omg , cor blimey ! For the sake of God , the person I am gonna decide to marry do not have an any kind of ex/exes , I beg ya , like me. Otherwise , it will drive me crazy fairly enough :( When it comes to you , why do you marry someone else if anybody confuses your mind permanently like in this situation or someone is in ur mind? What is the logic actually? Since thinking of those kind of things makes me feel bad according to a Christ perspective , I have never had any relationship with someone so far in any manner , it is absolutely not ethical. Anyway , all u have to do is just keep away from him and then forget all the things about him completely as soon as possible. You have to wait for your true love in the future if you wanna not to stop believing in love. Do not be so childish and do not even consider about "fake-cyber internet od social media related loves" like this , try to pay close attention to real life cuz everyone is the best person on the internet already ironically lool. Everything is the best in its right time , sister , so mind the gap ;)
He might check everyones story out... But then if you're his ex you'd think he wouldn't want to see what you're doing... so yeah, i think he's still hung up on you. If you are 100% you want to move on then block him.. otherwise you are being cruel unintentionally. He won't get over you if he refreshes his mind about you everytime you update your story. Cruel to be kind.
Honestly he might have some sort of motive behind it. But he could also just like most people go through every single snap he gets to spend time. Just because he does this doesn't mean he is obsessing over you or something. So you shouldn't worry if that is what's going on.
First you have the ability to make it where your Snapchat story is private and only friends can view it. If you're truly worried than I would say first step is this. He may not necessarily be interested in you. He may simply want to be friends. Breaking up with someone doesn't necessarily mean to break all ties with them after all
Yeah, because social media activity should be given equal value as day to day life, right? So stupid. Social media is a false reality. The dude doesn't want you back, he is being nosey. You won't block him because you like the attention (even though it really isn't) and you are clinging to hope that he might want you back... smh...
I think it means nothing. Honestly, same thing happened to me and literally never got back with him or spoke to him ever again after the break up. Still to this day my ex still views my stories but he's with someone new, means nothing to him and me seriously I wouldn't think too much about it.
Based on the provided info you can’t say how he feels about you.
1) He could miss you and be checking on you to see what’s up.
2) He could be checking everyone’s stories just as yours.
See what I’m saying here. It could be both. Which one it is, you don’t know but you know for sure he doesn’t hate you because he wouldn’t check it then.
It’s either positive or neutral feeling about you.
Hmmm it could mean that he wanna check his competition. Which is stupid because he broke up with you. It could also mean that he left you for a potential different girl, but that didn't pan out right, so now he is trying to get back with you. It could mean many things, but u don't think any of the possibilities are good for you.
Misses you and liked you for some reasons but over all decided it wasn't going to work out.
Posibly thought you where attractive or sweet but not in the same place intellectually or with the values or life styles he wanted for the driection he wanted to go in.
Could be anything from very positive to very negative. He could really be missing you. Or, he might be starting to stalk you, although I think this is a fairly remote possibility. He's probably just getting used to the fact that you aren't in his picture any more.
Does SnapChat have a feed? (I don't use SnapChat, so I don't know anything about it.) If so, maybe your stuff shows up in his feed automatically because of the algorithms. Facebook does that; I get notifications from people I like/tolerate but they're not even my best brings. But I don't really care enough to do anything to change it; I just go with the flow. ... But if it was an ex, I might block her just to protect my own feelings. I really don't know what's going through his mind.
He probably wants to see if you moved on or what you’re doing now that you guys don’t talk anymore and he definitely has feelings for you because if he didn’t he wouldn’t care enough to look at your story
If I'm bored I'll look at people's stories. Even the ones that I don't really care about. Doesn't matter if he has another motive unless you wanna get back together, .
Could just be that he still has you added, therefore just taps/swipes through, but my money's on that part of a greedy man's mentality that he thinks he owns part of people just because he entered their life, hence you were dating him. I had s friend like that, he cheated on his girlfriend 4 times, and bragged it to me, so I know how some brains work on people like that.
LOL. Not to sound rude, but why are you making this about you? He probably watches everyone's snap chat. When I'm on Snap Chat, I watch everyone's throughout the day, even if I don't know them.
@fashionguy17 Girls refuse to believe what you are saying and it's just mind boggling. They seem to understand how little effort it takes to read their 'stories'. Then when some moron they used to like pops up, they refuse to block him. Yeah makes sense.
It means he is watching to see if you found someone. He Hope's you dont so you feel miserable without him. Not because he wants but he wants you to feel bad.
You where a part of his life and then you disappeared from it and its not your fault by the way but he just mayne kinda still into you but not that much
I would just ignore it my ex unfollowed me on all social media Except snap which is weird but he’s always the first person to look at every snap I put up.
Probably not a lot unfortunately. When he flicks through snapchat stories yours probably pops up as he flicks through. If you're sending them directly to him then he's probably clicking them to cleae the notification.
He is a jerk and might be jerking off on your pics, whatever they show... trust me it doesn't matter, imagination is all... well anyways, kick him out. Make his snapchat view go away...
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Anonymous
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It means show time. Post amazing stuff about places you go to, until you post the pix of your new lover and he watches it
It means that you fret about social media use too much.
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Anonymous
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means nothing? THe fuck are this questions? Ur obsessed with him, accept the truth. I still look at my ex stories and she looks at mine, and i like her photos. So what?
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