It's been 2 days and he has not accepted. We have a 12 year age gap so he may not use social media like me. The longer I wait the more stupid I feel and I regret sending it. Older people I talk to said he may not be that into social media and may not be on there since I sent it especially if he has notifications turned off. Will it look dumb if I cancel the request at this point?
How long should I wait before cancelling a friend request that I sent to a guy? Will it look worse that I cancel it?
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Leave it pending, who cares?
hell no fuck it leave it you never no
He has always initiated all the contact in person by giving me crap and asking me questions. This is the first time I initiated something... I wanted to show I was interested but now I feel like a creeper. I'm told by friends and random strangers that I'm really good looking etc so I don't think it'll be too creepy. Plus I see him every other day and have known him for over a year now.
wow really what's taking so long to talk to him is there something else? show me a pic of you so we can clear that out
Well he knows I just ended a relationship not too long ago so I think he is respecting that and giving it some space. I'm not sure. No I'm not sending a picture as I don't want people to know me on the internet on this site hence why I posted anonymous.
so I'm taking your word for it kinda what's your sizes that does say a lot and guys can't wait once a girl is single again he should be humping your leg right now
Well it may be the type of profession he is in as he doesn't want to give himself a bad reputation is my guess. I feel like I'm just making excuses for him. The last time I was single I had this same issue as no guy wanted to step in right after the break up because they didn't want to be the rebound they kept saying. After a few months passed then my phone was blowing up with different guys.
well there you go and you didn't even leave me your number lol