Guys, Why does My boyfriend constantly erect around me?

[Anonymous]

He is 33 years old its been a 3 years that we r together and every time we kiss he gets hard on... does he only wants sex?

[chaxle]

Erections don't always mean sex. 3 years into a relationship, I'm surprised you don't know what he wants. You should try to be more open about your boundaries for having sex. There's nothing he can do about getting erect. If he's turned on by you, that's it, but he should know you don't want to have sex every time you hang out. It may take you being the initiator for sex

[Anonymous]

Not only. This is normal. It's physical contact. Do you ever get wet kissing? If so, do you only want sex? And he's also your boyfriend. I've always got hard just having my girlfriend close by, never mind any physical contact. Sure I'd like sex, or some kind of play, but not ONLY.

[jtink]

Don't think it's because he wants sex, he has no personal control over his erections. Sometimes they come on at the strangest of times. Hell I'll even share an experience that happened today. I work in construction and I was riding along with a coworker and out of nowhere I got a boner just before he pulled into the job site. No reason at all, no thoughts in my head, no stimulation, it was just there. It happens, your man is probably very easily turned on by you and anything you do.

[errornotfound]

We can get hard at the most random of times, and honestly, if you two are kissing and he gets hard, that's probably a natural reaction, getting hard is just something that happens when we get aroused, it's not really easy to force, as you have to get the blood rushing there, so it's not like he's doing this to get sex, he's just turned on.

[fyrds]

It's a normal reaction to sexual stimulation. Doesn't mean he always wants sex, just that his body is reacting in a positive way to your kisses. It's good that he's turned on by you, and as long as he's not pestering you or complaining about it, it's a good thing.

[abc3643]

Instead of complaining, be happy that he is healthy enough for a constant regular appearance of Mister Happy. Believe me, in a few years, boners may be a thing of the past for him.

[Sanser]

It's perfect! I mean, it's easy to girls if a guy is turned on by her so you have the prove there :D.

Also there are a lot of causes of erections, we can't controll them in a lot of situations, it doesn't mean sex sometimes. I think you should talk him about it but, I mean... I think its great that he is so turned on by you as the first day you started your relationship :D

[ANDYB88]

No he doesn’t only want you for sex. I’m also 33 and also been with my girlfriend for 3 years - I still get hard when she just walks in the room. I find her indescribably hot!! I’m sure he feels the same way about you. It doesn’t mean I just want her for sex and again I guarantee your boyfriend feels the same way too.

[jake007]

You may be too attractive to him and therefore his subconscience cannot control it self. But if you married it will be the best time ever. Marriage before sex is what God Almighty recommends.

[Lethiferous]

After 3 years he still gets excited when kissing you. What is there to complain

[Anonymous]

He wouldn't be living with you for years just for sex.

On the other hand when you kiss he's not imagining what he's gonna have for breakfast tomorrow.

[ArrowheadSW]

He is very attracted to you and he is turned on by kissing. Not sure if he "only wants sex" unless he acts like he needs sex every time he gets an erection.