Why is he still keeping up with me if they don't like me?

[Anonymous]

Been chatting back and forth for about 5 months. Know each other personally he just lives in another state. Anyway he's already said he has no interest in me even though he said he's sure he won't lose touch with me he goes to live in another country for 2 years. I asked him why is he still replying to me if he don't care for me and he said he don't want to be an a**hole and not reply at all that he's just a nice guy. That if he was interested I would know lol.

He's still on my Snapchat watching my stories. He's never missed watching a story of mine. I have told him that if he don't have any interest in me then to stop looking at me and what I'm doing yet he's still doing it. I have sent him a pic of me in bra and parties before which he liked and said "Damnnnnnn" to. He don't make sense.

[Tuomaaash]

To me it makes all kinds of sense. He probably wants to get an ego boost out of you and having someone as a backup in case he ever needed one. If a man says he´s not interested, it really means he´s just not that into you. Try deleting him from snapchat and all other social media that you use. See what his reaction is and you´ll find out for youself :)

[Asker]

If I delete him he can still view my stories cause I have them set public so others can see but I don't have to have them added to do so. I unfollowed him from Instagram and he hasn't really talked to me since I did that. Well he won't be getting anymore ego boosts out of me. He didn't really say he wasn't interested he just said he's not interested in dating me. I asked why he don't like me and he said he never said he didn't like me as a friend lol. He never answered my actual question though

[Onetiltman]

Sounds like my step 2 from getting out of friend zone lmao

[Asker]

@Onetiltman Well if he don't care for me then maybe he should stop looking at everything I'm doing

[Asker]

@Onetiltman and I know he pays attention cause he literally private messaged me on there asking about a pic of me in the mirror so I know he looks at them and doesn't just skip through

[LunaJ]

maybe he's manipulating you to keep you around.
if he clearly said that he don't want to date - it means he don't want to date. a guy will never say no to a girl he likes on a romantic way.
he can like you - as friend.
like we can like guys - as friend.

[Onetiltman]

^stage 2 of ego boost

[Tuomaaash]

I agree with LunaJ and if he wants to view your public posts, so be it. He gets what anyone would get and there´s nothing special in that. If it´s not privately shared pics or vids, he won´t get any boosts from you ;) Guys like to get those "special" pics even from friends to feel better about themselves and in this case he´s probably doing the same thing to other girls as well. So just forget about him and find someone who appreciates you and sends you cool pics too :D

[aestheticsofty]

He just wants to look at your stories. If he says he's not interested, he's not.

[Onetiltman]

Feel like the guy friendzoned ya lol

[Asker]

I don't mind being friend zoned. I think he's secretly gay anyway

[Onetiltman]

Jw r u sayin he's gay cause of evidence or his repulsiveness

[Onetiltman]

Tbh he doesn't have a clear mind so your call

[Onetiltman]

I don't know how you deal with "nice guys" but in another state O. o

[Asker]

I don't know lol. I told him the other day I think he's hiding something and he asked what did I think he was hiding and I said that I think he's secretly gay and he hasn't talked to me since lol.

[Asker]

I guess I've just never had a guy act like he did towards me. He's never been mean to me. He's had a reason to not talk to me Anymore and yet he still
Does

[Onetiltman]

Erm... it comes to the question does a person need to talk to you if he cares or not and like wise it seems like you want something out of this whether good or bad

[Asker]

I guess not.