My crush called me his daughter?

[Anonymous]

So my crush called me his daughter today, and I'm not sure what that means. Recently he's started doing this kind of thing a lot, but this is the first time he's ever called me that.
He's started saying the whole, "I'm big and you're small, I'm dominant you're submissive." He'll also saying things like, "who's gonna stop me?" When I tell him I don't like something that he does. (Never anything really bad he just likes blowing vape clouds in my face)
What does all this mean?

[elsten28]

It means, to put it plainly, that your crush wants to fuck you. The dominant/submissive thing is the basic power dynamic that most bdsm and actually even regular sex is based on. Calling you his daughter means he wants you to call him daddy, this can have both sexual and romantic connotations like that you're his little girl that he wants to look after and you have to do what he says but seeing as you've described him as an 18 year old guy i'd say he's not super emotionally mature and his meaning is purely sexual and he just wants somebody to do his bidding without any consideration of what you need or want. In the community we call this a "fakedom" and honestly he sounds kinda rude to push his desires on you without explaining anything and also blowing vape clouds in people's faces is tacky.

The "who's gonna stop me" thing is hot but only when you both know that you don't really intend to stop him, it's part of the power dynamic which many people are into, but the most important thing is that it's been agreed to by both parties. Consent is always important; if he's saying "who's gonna stop me" to you telling him he's doing things you don't like then what's really concerning me is what if you have sex with this guy or he makes a move and you don't like something he does or you want to stop? He's definitely teasing you to get a reaction from you because he likes you, but from past experience these types of boys don't always seem to know when you've had enough.

You always have to right to say no but some people don't take no for an answer, this guy just seems really entitled and I'd say get rid of him unless you want to explore being a submissive but I'd recommend doing that with somebody else, google is free, don't get hurt.

[Jazzy54]

What the hell? I would no longer be interested in him. That’s freaking weird.

[robske]

well kind of awkward, calling someone your daughter

uhm i'd say he's being kind of awkward either he doesn't know how to compose himsellf, or he does it on purpose.

the dominant/submissive thing is kind of confusing.

now the blowing clouds in your face, it might be a sign of interest, or so i've been told by a girl here in the netherlands.

i hope this helps

[eterna1drag0n]

He has no respect for you at all. He's an asshole and you shouldn't even be friends with him. What kind of trash person thinks it's ok to vape in someones face?

[Peter_Penetrator]

That is typical fetish vernacular. He wants to be your daddy and wants you to see him as a sexual mentor.


Daddy’s are dominant and daughters are submissive. Yes. Your crush wants to fuck you.


Tease him back. Say something like, “yes daddy”, anytime he acts assertive with you and watch the expression on his face. Playfully ask if you are going to get a spanking.


He doesn’t mean this in an incestuous way and definitely not in the way a pedo would imagine it.


Just let him lead you (dominate you) in the bedroom.


He wants to pleasure you in ways you haven’t even thought of yet.

[Massageman]

Daddy/daughter issues. Time to leave, in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

Well, he sounds kinda strange calling your daughter unless he’s a lot older than you

[BadApple69]

It means you need to get out of that relationship.

[WhitneySnow]

How old is your crush?

[Anonymous]

Thats hot

[chestnut75]

How old is he?

[Asker]

He's 18