It could be a good response or it could of have been his way to avoid saying the actually words by kissing you or showing you he feels the same way by kissing you. But the fact you said it and he didn't say it back afterwards was a little odd and would make me raise an eyebrow. Try again later and if he doesn't response by saying I love you or try to doge saying it by kissing you or doing something else, then ask him why he won't say it.
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I think he heard you, but he is not sure how he feels yet. He used the kiss to evade the conversation, so he could figure out his feelings. It appears that he definitely cares for you, and there is nothing wrong for him trying to figure out his feelings. Just keep going out like you have been, it’ll be fine. Eventually if things keep going well, he probably will say “I love you too” to you. Have a nice day, goad things are going well!
no, I wouldn't say that's a bad sign by default.
I didn't say/do anything the first time my boyfriend told me he loved me. The next few times, I just replied with an ''... okay.'.
Which had no effect on how much I loved or didn't love him, nor was it indicative of that wither. I was just a bit caught off guard till I got used to replying in a more 'normal' fashion. :P
I would say that he is falling for you but he isn't quite ready to say I love you. That's ok. Give him a bit of time. If you push it that might make him nervous and end up pushing him away.
It's not a bad sign at all. What would have been a bad sign is if he didn't reply at all, vocally or physically, and just bounced. Typically men are bad at voicing emotions, and when they are, they tend to prefer to show you their answer. I think him kissing you passionately and intimately was his own version of the 3 little words.
I don't know I don't think it's necessarily a bad sign. In general it's beter for a guy to be a bit more reserved and not get too emotionally invested. Maybe he's not ready to say it yet or I don't know. It's better too be reserved than to start having feelings too early and then the girl gets turned off lol ^^
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Its not a bad sign. Maybe he's just not ready to say it yet. It would have been worse if he had said it back just to make u happy. (I did that once)
Give him time, when he says it he’ll mean iteveryone says those 3 words in there own time. it is important not to pressure him to say it. someone said it to me before then i diddnt say it back. they ended the relationship because they thought i diddnt truly love. it just means he isn't a player if he doesn't say it. it is something you should only say once in life. he probally wants to give it time to make sure
Don't worry- he has strong feelings for you even if he isn't verbalizing being in love for you yet (what he does is generally more important than what he says). People often don't fall in love with each other simultaneously, anyway.
It’s just a word. Actions matter more. Actually the more often you say, ‘I love you’ the more likely you are trying to make up for the fact you aren’t showing it with actions.
Give him time. You also have to keep in mind that not everyone shows love in the same way. Some express it through words better, maybe art, and even action. Pay attention to his actions.
Sounds like he's more a man of action than a man of words. I personally would say beyond affectionate towards your vocal affectionate is a very good sign.
Um I think so because he did not say it back, not really a great sign
Extremely good sign, he loves you to but expresses it with aggection rather then words.
Never gone that far but it can mean anything, human is complex and nothing is ever certain in life.
I don't think it's a bad sign, but would have been better if he said it. Some guys over use the word and others are scared to ever say it. Could be he was not ready/surprised.
I don't think so it's a bad sign. I think he just need time to figure out his true feelings for you.
He told you, he loves you to, but deeds not word, how is that a bad sign!!
Nah he in the love with you. He also in bed with someone else
Not at all!!! Kissing is a symbol of love!!! If you both love each other, there's nothing bad in kissing!!!
No. He will be fine soon after your proposal seeps into him completely. He has already fallen for you though.
He kissed you afterwards so it's not as bad as you think. I'm sure he'll say it when he means it
Yeah it means he doesn't love you back yet.
How was the kiss? Then I can tell you.
No not at all stop overthinking it's fucking good
Sounds perfect, I don't see the issue.
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