What's your opinion on the dominant guy cuddling up to the submissive girl in a relationship during their sleep?

[Alice993]

Many people might think it's weird but I wanna know some more opinions on this.
First of all its not always that way;2 out of 3 nights I cuddle up to him but sometimes he just likes to sleep on top of me, on my chest in particular, because he said the heartbeat, breathing, heat and softness calms him down.

He's not a submissive guy though.
He's a lot stronger both mentally and physically and is what I'd call a leader.

Sometimes he just needs that comfort because he's been through a lot of shit too;-;

So what's your opinion on this?

Thanks a lot ^^

[Chaz269]

That's not a sign of submission in any way, so I don't think those roles are a factor. If he does need role reversal to decompress, it's best if you support him. I've read and seen a fair bit about BDSM clubs, and a lot of dominatrixes say most of their clientele is very wealthy & powerful men who've made not just a career, but a lifestyle out of getting their own way. They go to those clubs to be dominated & humiliated as a means to decompress. I thought that strange at first, but it kinda makes sense. So, if he ever asks you to spank, leave marks!

[anametouse]

*sees 15 year old girl post about sleeping with a guy*

*Inner dad intensifies*

*loads shotgun*

[Alice993]

It's alright actually.
We live together because half my family is dead or doesn't give a fuck about me so I think he's doing nothing wrong ;-;
He's definitely not hurting me so there's no need to load the shotgun xD

[anametouse]

hahaha all good im just joking, sorry to here about his family, that's pretty rough

[Alice993]

It's alright ^^
We just have really shitty heating in our house so that's why we sleep clutched on top of each other like pancakes with 2 blankets on top xD

[anametouse]

well, you do what you have too haha, it is December

[southerngirl88]

I think it's sweet when a guy lets go of things like what the tough dominant guy is supposed to do and just enjoys himself, if it's comfy and he likes cuddling that way then he should do it

[fpmsn]

Powerful men wants and ever wanted a soft women to calm him down after a day at war or fighting or hunting... You should be flatter, it means that he can loose is shield with you and rest. He really loves you! Now that cuddle cannot last longer, it's only to recharge batteries and go to the war again.

[MsElizabeth96]

Why, is this even a question? That's just normal?

[Sha84]

i luv to cuddle with my friends

[disgustingweebtrash]

Fine