The thing about family is its precisely because they don't mean it that way that they don't realize they should care that that's where they are looking. Sometimes it's just your center of gravity lol
As someone who spaced out a lot as a kid, if I was say, sitting across from someone at a table and spaced out my eyes would generally lower and I'd find myself looking at their chest whether it be a man or a woman.
If it makes you uncomfortable just say so. His reaction will most likely be something along the lines of "oh, I didn't realize" and you'll both move on
if he's going through puberty he's probably confused and doesn't know y he is if he's younger than just put it down to not knowing and not anything sexual if he's done puberty and around my age or older then talk to him about it maybe he's not but it looks that way or maybe he's just weird or unlucky everytime he looks up
I don't think it's good to look at your sister like that. Incest is wrong in many cultures.
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He's not lusting over his sister. Testosterone is just one hell of a hormone. It's difficult not to at least glance when they're visible in front of you. Either hide your cleavage, or make it clear you caught him. Say something or obviously pull the top of your shirt up to cover it or something along those lines. If he knows he was caught, he's more likely to stop.
Guys love boobies! If you are showing cleavage they are going to look. It doesn't matter if it'd your brother. However you should tell him he's gross for looking so he doesn't do it anymore otherwise he will continue to do it. You are literally exposing your breasts for men to see them so you kind of have to expect that they are ALL going to notice...
It's normal, at some point guys get inquisitive and makes perfect sense that they're going to be curious.. I don't think it means anything more than that. I'd probably avoid talking to him because that would make things super awkward between you.. Just remember it's most likely very innocent and not actually creepy.
Yup, it's normal. It's creepy as hell, but it's normal. He's freaked out that his sister is getting tits. He does not want to think of you as a potentially sexual being. The LAST thing he wants is any reminder that you, of all people, might do that. He just does not ever want to go there, so he gets freaked out when confronted with your tits.
Even though you're his sister, you still have girl equipment, and he likes to look at it. You might want to mention to him that it makes you feel uncomfortable, and that you don't want to go that route with him.
Is it your blood brother? That's kind of messed up when a guy looks at a girls boobs he is thinking wht he wants to do to them , your brother needs help
That’s what boys too. I’m sure he doesn’t have the intention of coming off weird but that’s what testosteron does
Pros
he's not gay
Cons
he's super duper horny, can't help his daydreams, little head fully in charge of big one
Be careful
introduce him to a wild girl to take his mind off yours
Never had sister. But I guess it's must difficult for him to get his focus somewhere else.
it's one of the most common and normal things to ever happen in a brother/sister situation. Guys AND girls get curious about the opposite sex's body and WILL look if they see them.
u Up to you but a nice pair a tits are always nice to look at
It's not normal at all.
Only weirdos and sickos ever do that in the real world.
How obvious is that.
Yes , tell him he's wrong for staring at you , he's your brother.
Yes, quite normal. If you don't want him to stare, wrap 'em up.
You should definitely warn him... like serious warning... else he might take it as for granted... which will be very awkward , isn't it...
Their sister will learn them better manners rather quickly.
Quite normal if you have your goods on display. He's probably just horny. Help him out and he will stop staring.
Is he between the ages of 11-13?
Don't show your cleavage in front of him.
Maybe, never had a brother
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