If a guy goes down on you before you even have sex, does it mean that he is generous or that he wants the same in return?

[Anonymous]

We knew each other for 2 or 2.5 months , same class in uni.
we kissed and went to parties together, he initiated the contact with me.
However, we were not a couple, we just started getting intimate, we kissed like 2 times and haven’t went out yet ( he ask but I really had no time cause of my job)
so after 2m I came to his place for a movie and a sleepover. We kissed and made out and then he went down on me. Without sex or anything...
And then he was fine with just laying around. Didn’t initiate sex or anything...

heh?
is this normal?
i felt like I was using him somehow but I couldn’t do anything else since we are only starting dating.

[God_of_Thunder]

It usually just means that he's generous, or wants to please you.

I'm the same way, because I genuinely enjoy going down on a girl. Sure, it turns me on, but it doesn't mean I want, or expect, anything in return. It's enjoyable just giving her pleasure.

Don't feel bad about it, or anything. He doesn't feel used. It was something he wanted to do.

[TadCurious]

He probably wasn't looking at it as a "I'll do this for you if you do this for me" kind of thing. He most likely just really likes to give oral to women (totally understandable!) and was happy to do it.

[grace_lynn]

He was just trying to turn you on and impress you and he did t expect the favor necessarily back I'm sure be would have enjoyed if it was returned but he was showing respect to the choices

[Dreamweaver671]

Uh. Is a blow job considered sex? Cause you just got a blow job from him. It may not be considered normal that he waited 2 months before making a move!!! I usually make at least an attempt at HEAVY petting on the 3 or 4th date. Kudos for not rushing but makes me wonder what took so long? In experience? And you could have moved mountains in that moment even achieved an orgasm.

[JSmith925]

He might just really enjoy giving. Tell him how good you felt and how much it meant to you that he cared about your pleasure.
~JSmith

[harleydude202]

I go down everytime when I sleep with a women, it gets me worked up making a girl squirm. Hard to say what he is expecting, probably just happy to do it! I also believe in both people achieving an orgasm during intercourse.

[0112358]

It could be thatbyes more confident initiating pleasing you then whipping out his dick and telling you to pleasure him.

[winterfox10]

That's not normal, but it is a good thing! It means that he cares about your pleasure, and probably about you. He's investing in his relationship/friendship with you.

[Gream_69]

Going down on you is foreplay. He's getting you hot before having sex.
Now some guys will go down on you because they enjoy pleasing the girl and they enjoy the taste.

[Danny-K]

Generous, some guys just really love the taste of pussy

[therainman]

He probably either really enjoys giving or he's that generous. Or both! I mean, I'm both.

[Paulsuit]

Rather than asking here, you should ask him directly. What are his hole/ expectations !!

[GreenGold1992]

Could be generous, could be expecting the same in return, could be both, it depends.

[corymac]

He might just enjoy eating pussy. It would be nice if you returned the favor

[reptocarl]

Generous

[naughty_dost]

He is trying to make the move for you to respond

[madmark]

It is part of foreplay and sex

[lucky1356]

It means your beautiful, and he wants to enjoy you

[Christianlukey]

Guys just like eating a girls out. I know I do

[lolo_94]

Maybe he enjoys going down

[vin3384]

No after