Guys, Would you cut off a female friend if you had feelings for her?

[Queenbeast22]

I had been best friends with this guy for over 2 years and he helped me through one of the most difficult times of my life. The last time I saw him was the first time I hugged him and that hug was long and he did not pat me on the back and I felt his heart rate go up.
Here's the catch. He had a girlfriend and she is the jealous type.
As a guy with a girlfriend, would you stop talking to a female friend if you started to like her as more than a friend to be loyal to your gf?

[s10sleeper]

I remained friends with an ex, I basically dropped contact with her while in a relationship with a gal that was dealing with a divorce with a man that cheated on her, I had felt it was only right to spend time with that ex while my girlfriend was with me because I knew I wouldn't have liked my girlfriend spending time alone with a single man, not out of possessiveness but because of his possible intentions and it was out of respect. My ex was understanding of it, our friendship was strong enough to endure that

[EPunn]

No, I would have to talk with her though and let her know that neither me or her should act on those feelings since I was already in a relationship. I believe it's ok to have feelings, but it's a choice whether or not you act on them, and sometimes choosing to act isn't always right.

[thegreenarrow]

No I wouldn't stop talking because friends don't do that. If you feel his heartbeat and you like him than probably you should tell him. May be he is waiting for you to confess your feelings in front of him because he doesn't want to lose you if he tells his first
Or may be both of you should talk ignoring his jealous girlfriend because friends are friends

[SirRexington]

I would. But id be conflicted, should I go with my friend (the one who I've been through so much with) or my girlfriend who i am with for a reason?

It's a tough decision to make.

[1nittol3arn]

Yep. I have done it. And will continue to. The point is you cannot be just friends with someone of the opposite sex when you develop ataction and feelings. Most guys already know this. Some gals for some reason haven't gotten the concept down yet.

[truthbeknown]

Yes. Chances are his girlfriend put her foot down and told him to stop seeing you.

[boggboss]

I wouldn't be with my girlfriend if I had feelings like that for someone else

[Kuraj]

I wouldn't have feelings for a female friend if I was in a relationship.
I would cut off a female friend if she had feelings for me, though.

[Premihoo]

Same here I love someone but she loves other but yes in love there should be no selfishness as she is happy with his boyfriend then I m happy as a freind

[PAWSTTG]

Not really. That's what love should be. Passion for your best friend. Anything else is not as fulfilling.

[btgs012]

No i would care for her because that what friends are for

[Anonymous]

Ill be honest. I have done it before. It can be too painful to be friends with a girl you like. The friendzone is just one screw away from being cuckholded.