Sexted this guy online but he confuses me. Guys out there, please help me understand? (Page 2)

Question

I got bored one night and decided to get into one of those online chat rooms applications (don’t judge me).

I started chatting with this one guy. After a few words he asked me what I was wearing... and well you can guess what happened next. Somewhere in between he sent me gifs of his you know where, doing you know what. I shared nothing back, I don’t feel comfortable with sending nudes to strangers.

**This is where I gets weird** After we are done sexting he asked me my number, and that he wanted to be my “friend” insisted upon it. I refused. He knew immediately that I wouldn’t trust a stranger.

Next night, same thing happened but no pictures this time. He asked again... insisted upon the friendship thing. I told him we are strangers, and that to be my friend he needs to know me not just what I like in bed. We ended up agreeing in being online fu**buddies (but I don’t think he’s dropping the friends thing).

He’s just... WHY? Why does he want to be my friend, why ask for my number? Does he think one day we’ll have sex for real? That one of us is going to drive all the way to the other side of Texas to have sex? Is this is way of making me trust him and get nudes from me? What the f**** is going on here? We don’t even know what each other look like (just described ourselves in a very basic level no pics). For as long as I’ve been in that silly app, I’ve never ever had a guy like this... I thought guys liked sexting and anonymity, no strings or anything... so I’m just here going like “WTF”. I’m probably not the only girl he’s sexting and asking for numbers.

My question to you is... “What’s his game?” Guys our there, help me understand here.

Note: I don’t need a lesson on the dangers online, I’m a grown woman. I know how it works.

About: I’m 25 latina, he’s 28 white. We’re both in Texas. We have no idea what each other look like or anything at all about each other.

Thank you so much to those who answer.

Steve37 · Answer

He probably has ideas of meeting up one day and doing the things you are sexting about. You are smart not to send nudes or to give him your contact info.

HereIbe · Answer

His game is to get your pussy for real and dominate you, as well. He has severe issues, given his behavior. Do not go back to that chatroom. This guy is a latent stalker.

cootjuh · Answer

Well at first sexting is nice. When u meet someone online and can be very open with its exciting. And i can imagine when a lady/girl pleasure you really good and you trust her that you will ask to keep contact for doing a sexy time again.

JoshuaJones · Answer

Honestly he probably just wants to meet up for sex. I've always wanted to try the anonymous online chat... kudos to you!

benwood1337 · Answer

I honestly don't know, he seems like he wants to be "friends" when he just wants to get closer to you. I wouldn't trust him.

lightedvoid · Answer

Well she might not have an easy time with women in that site and he's hoping that you too will grow close together in that it will become a permanent relationship.

jsixis · Answer

Lol you live in the same state and you're sexting. He wants to have sex with you. DUUUUHHH

Jeremiahjdupree · Answer

He is probably lonely if its real "friendship", but he is most likely dangerous like you said

Anonymous · Answer

His intention is simple. To call you, make as a real life friend, and fuck you. Some guys stop in between sexting when they are done. But some guys like to meet them in real and fuck them.

Hady2070 · Answer

doesn't want commitment or is already committed to someone else but is doings this behind thier back

sinistersaint · Answer

He could be trying to become friends so your more comfortable and he believes if your more comfortable your more likely to send nudes

Anonymous · Answer

Not sure, I usually just flash my dick in Chatroulette and Omegle. I like the ego boost I get when girls see my 8 inches.

alysiah · Answer

He just sounds lonely, and is reaching out for anything I wouldn't invest in it

101jamiebennett · Answer

He probably wants too gain your trust and what app is this

christnagamble2011 · Answer

tell him to stop playing around and tell him to tell him to tell about himself to you

Anonymous · Answer

He just wants to bang you. What's the app name tho?(don't judge me)

fuctt · Answer

He's just horny. Easy: block him

Sumdonkis · Answer

A cautionary tale about sexting. Don't do it.

aialex · Answer

He wants to get in your pants.

UnknownGagsUser · Answer

FWD you know first thing is to be ya friend.

Sexted this guy online but he confuses me. Guys out there, please help me understand? (Page 2)

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