If a guy gets one of his friends to be his wingman to get you, is that a good sign he’s interested in you?

[TsundereMatrix]

I had a guy do this to me but he got one of his female friends to come talk to me about him and she told me how awesome of a guy he is and how sweet he is, things like that and I was confused as hell because I never had someone do that to me before. I later found out that guys sometimes do that to get the girl they want/interested in but is it a true sign?

[tysthename]

Yes that's true, having a female friend do the talking makes the guy feel safer as he feels like it's less invasive and there's a better opportunity for you to bond with another girl rather then having a creepy or idiotic guy friend ruin everything the guy feels like there's a better chance of you trusting the girl and taking her word for it when she talks him up, personally I've seen and had plenty guy friends pull this card, I myself had my older sister do it when I was 21 but since I've grown up, I am now the type of guy to go directly to the girl and let her know im interested and find her attractive for myself as I believe it can show true character instead of relying on someone to boast things about me.

[dmgstarfleet]

a sign they are interested in you -yes. Whether they are intersted in you or just banging you, well, that part remains to be determined. But he's interested in something about you.
BTW-its an amateur move and reeks lack of confidence on his part.

[mono_gram]

Yeah, he probably doesn't want to mess up anything/miss his chance, so he asks someone else (who may or may not) be closer to you to make things easier

[toby7116]

oh yeah i mean hahahhaha he's shy then but is interested he wouldn't go through that much work

[kenworth]

It sure is a sign. He might just be having him/her do that to give him an opening to having a conversation with you. He might be a bit shy or just a bit nervous as he may think you are the absolutly most beautiful girl in the world.

[ManFrom1982]

... That's some serious shyness on his part. That's not really being a wingman either. The wingman is the guy's friend who flirts with your friend to distract her while he moves in to flirt with you...

[MusicMayhem]

It's a sign he's a pussy. Guys that do this just sabotage themselves cause it doesn't show he's confident, goes after what he wants in life etc which turns off the girl. Girls have options so why would she go for a guy that has to play secret messenger games?

[Salsacumbia]

Yes. Its true. Guys sometimes want the ice breaker and they aren't very strong to come out and say it to your face that they like you, so they will ask someone to tell you about them, that he is great and not a creep. So its up to you, you then have the advantage of saying yes or no of being interested in him. I had this done to me before, and i remained friends only.

[niceguyantonio]

Yeah, i which i could have this happen where i could send someone else to do my bidding, but then again i have no friends 😂, anyways there can be two things this could mean one he thinks your really attractive and the mere thought of breaking the ice breaks his soul. Or maybe his friend that is female, is tried of hearing him being sad and lonely and thinks youd be a nice catch. But uhhhhhhhhh yeah thats my thoughts hope you figure it out👍

[JellyDonutguy96]

I fired my wingman
because he couldn't complete the task

[TsundereMatrix]

Did he steal your girl?

[JellyDonutguy96]

no he just failed

[a1525]

I would say yes that they are still interested in you because some people are shy and might not be good at starting a conversation and getting your attention but still are wanting to date you

[Logorithim]

Yes, this guy is very interested, but I think he should have approached you himself as well after his friend had vouched for him.

[TsundereMatrix]

Well he has but I didn’t see the signs at the time

[Logorithim]

Did he talk to you first, or did his lady friend?

[TsundereMatrix]

He used to talk to me a lot because he helped me through college for a year. He made the first approach a lot. I’m jut not experienced enough to know signs.

[Logorithim]

Ah, OK, that explains quite a bit.

[daisy122]

It’s a sign he’s interested in you yeah. Good or bad? I don't know. You’ll have to meet him for yourself. Wingmen and women are not an uncommon occurrence so it doesn’t exactly say much you know?

[kiddsexual1982]

Actually he had low confidence and it is a sign of deception. Look at the psychological emphasis behind it also. But I can say he really likes you to go that far

[Ryleebangs]

In my opinion yes it’s a good sign to show he’s interested in you! He’s putting effort in!

[AllThatSweetJazz]

It happens. Whether it was orchestrated or not, who knows. Whether it’s a good sign? Well he’s talking to you isn’t he? It should be obvious that he’s interested.

[dontgofalling]

Pretty sure he likes you very much, they know it, and try to hook you up

[Udbhav_Bantwal]

Yeah, its true... Guys do that, they send their female friends to talk them up so that you will think better of him and then he'll ask you out...

[iamconfusion111]

He likes you. You should get to know him! I bet it'll turn out amazing.

[StarDust_xo]

No I find that so unattractive. If a man is interested in me, I want him to approach me himself. Show me that confidence

[jasco]

yes from time to time it is we just dont like apporaching girls directly we rather have another girl do it

[okiedokie0909]

Oh hell yeah. That means he wants more than just sex he actually wants a connection with you. Who knows girls more than girls ya know?

[naitsirhc]

Yes, I'd say he wanted to get a feel for what you thought of him through an intermediary. Might feel like he would embarrass himself if he asked directly and you weren't interested

[jaraulio]

Lawd woman, you already know he likes you. What the hell are you waiting for? Get it girl!

[GoldCobra]

Yeah that’s a good sign. I always try and get a wingman to get a girl. And then it never ends up working for me

[somewheresomeway]

I did this for my galpal once. Talked her up to a guy she liked. He acted excited and I gave him her number but he never called her.

[The_Gentelman]

Never heared/thought about this but it is a good idea

[JamesHarvey232]

Yes, men will often go get their friends to big them up as most are too scared to come up to you on their own, due to the fear of rejection

[Deneb_Cygnus]

Sign of low confidence, but also could mean he likes you so much he wants you to think he's great

[flobadob]

Yeah I'd say so, why else would they be trying to buy them up?

[TallAnon]

Depends on the guy, I don't trust anyone to my job for me.

[F-Frostie]

Yeah, I mean, its because we don't have the stones to do it ourselves because we are afraid of rejection.

[mac20]

Yes. He was probably too shy or scared of being rejected by you.

[janna_jcb]

Yes, it’s a very clear sign

[maddithebaddi]

You just answered your own question

[skeetskeetskeet]

Interested in fucking you yes

[Thomasdf14]

No it’s a terrible sign

[Izakkkkk]

Yea that obviously means he doesn't like you

[Thomasdf14]

Hahahaha yeah

[randomp0tat0]

Yes, yes it is

[PlasticMan]

Yes. Very good sign.

[godamn]

Obviously?

[sammiraexo]

Absolutely