If a guy gets one of his friends to be his wingman to get you, is that a good sign he’s interested in you?

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I had a guy do this to me but he got one of his female friends to come talk to me about him and she told me how awesome of a guy he is and how sweet he is, things like that and I was confused as hell because I never had someone do that to me before. I later found out that guys sometimes do that to get the girl they want/interested in but is it a true sign?

tysthename · Accepted Answer

Yes that's true, having a female friend do the talking makes the guy feel safer as he feels like it's less invasive and there's a better opportunity for you to bond with another girl rather then having a creepy or idiotic guy friend ruin everything the guy feels like there's a better chance of you trusting the girl and taking her word for it when she talks him up, personally I've seen and had plenty guy friends pull this card, I myself had my older sister do it when I was 21 but since I've grown up, I am now the type of guy to go directly to the girl and let her know im interested and find her attractive for myself as I believe it can show true character instead of relying on someone to boast things about me.

dmgstarfleet · Accepted Answer

a sign they are interested in you -yes. Whether they are intersted in you or just banging you, well, that part remains to be determined. But he's interested in something about you.
BTW-its an amateur move and reeks lack of confidence on his part.

mono_gram · Accepted Answer

Yeah, he probably doesn't want to mess up anything/miss his chance, so he asks someone else (who may or may not) be closer to you to make things easier

toby7116 · Accepted Answer

oh yeah i mean hahahhaha he's shy then but is interested he wouldn't go through that much work

kenworth · Answer

It sure is a sign. He might just be having him/her do that to give him an opening to having a conversation with you. He might be a bit shy or just a bit nervous as he may think you are the absolutly most beautiful girl in the world.

ManFrom1982 · Answer

... That's some serious shyness on his part. That's not really being a wingman either. The wingman is the guy's friend who flirts with your friend to distract her while he moves in to flirt with you...

MusicMayhem · Answer

It's a sign he's a pussy. Guys that do this just sabotage themselves cause it doesn't show he's confident, goes after what he wants in life etc which turns off the girl. Girls have options so why would she go for a guy that has to play secret messenger games?

Salsacumbia · Answer

Yes. Its true. Guys sometimes want the ice breaker and they aren't very strong to come out and say it to your face that they like you, so they will ask someone to tell you about them, that he is great and not a creep. So its up to you, you then have the advantage of saying yes or no of being interested in him. I had this done to me before, and i remained friends only.

niceguyantonio · Answer

Yeah, i which i could have this happen where i could send someone else to do my bidding, but then again i have no friends 😂, anyways there can be two things this could mean one he thinks your really attractive and the mere thought of breaking the ice breaks his soul. Or maybe his friend that is female, is tried of hearing him being sad and lonely and thinks youd be a nice catch. But uhhhhhhhhh yeah thats my thoughts hope you figure it out👍

JellyDonutguy96 · Answer

I fired my wingman  because he couldn't complete the task

a1525 · Answer

I would say yes that they are still interested in you because some people are shy and might not be good at starting a conversation and getting your attention but still are wanting to date you

Logorithim · Answer

Yes, this guy is very interested, but I think he should have approached you himself as well after his friend had vouched for him.

daisy122 · Answer

It’s a sign he’s interested in you yeah. Good or bad? I don't know. You’ll have to meet him for yourself. Wingmen and women are not an uncommon occurrence so it doesn’t exactly say much you know?

kiddsexual1982 · Answer

Actually he had low confidence and it is a sign of deception. Look at the psychological emphasis behind it also. But I can say he really likes you to go that far

Ryleebangs · Answer

In my opinion yes it’s a good sign to show he’s interested in you! He’s putting effort in!

AllThatSweetJazz · Answer

It happens. Whether it was orchestrated or not, who knows. Whether it’s a good sign? Well he’s talking to you isn’t he? It should be obvious that he’s interested.

dontgofalling · Answer

Pretty sure he likes you very much, they know it, and try to hook you up

Udbhav_Bantwal · Answer

Yeah, its true... Guys do that, they send their female friends to talk them up so that you will think better of him and then he'll ask you out...

iamconfusion111 · Answer

He likes you. You should get to know him! I bet it'll turn out amazing.

StarDust_xo · Answer

No I find that so unattractive. If a man is interested in me, I want him to approach me himself. Show me that confidence

jasco · Answer

yes from time to time it is we just dont like apporaching girls directly we rather have another girl do it

okiedokie0909 · Answer

Oh hell yeah. That means he wants more than just sex he actually wants a connection with you. Who knows girls more than girls ya know?

naitsirhc · Answer

Yes, I'd say he wanted to get a feel for what you thought of him through an intermediary. Might feel like he would embarrass himself if he asked directly and you weren't interested

jaraulio · Answer

Lawd woman, you already know he likes you. What the hell are you waiting for? Get it girl!

GoldCobra · Answer

Yeah that’s a good sign. I always try and get a wingman to get a girl. And then it never ends up working for me

somewheresomeway · Answer

I did this for my galpal once. Talked her up to a guy she liked. He acted excited and I gave him her number but he never called her.

The_Gentelman · Answer

Never heared/thought about this but it is a good idea

JamesHarvey232 · Answer

Yes, men will often go get their friends to big them up as most are too scared to come up to you on their own, due to the fear of rejection

Deneb_Cygnus · Answer

Sign of low confidence, but also could mean he likes you so much he wants you to think he's great

flobadob · Answer

Yeah I'd say so, why else would they be trying to buy them up?

TallAnon · Answer

Depends on the guy, I don't trust anyone to my job for me.

F-Frostie · Answer

Yeah, I mean, its because we don't have the stones to do it ourselves because we are afraid of rejection.

mac20 · Answer

Yes. He was probably too shy or scared of being rejected by you.

janna_jcb · Answer

Yes, it’s a very clear sign

maddithebaddi · Answer

You just answered your own question

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

Interested in fucking you yes

Thomasdf14 · Answer

No it’s a terrible sign

randomp0tat0 · Answer

Yes, yes it is

PlasticMan · Answer

Yes. Very good sign.

godamn · Answer

Obviously?

sammiraexo · Answer

Absolutely

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