Boyfriend gets upset when im not in the mood for?

[Anonymous]

So I was with my boyfriend yesterday. At about 3am he wanted to have sex. I wasn’t really in the mood because I was exhausted and already cranky from lack of sleep. I had a long day and work and then couldn’t get to sleep. I was also not feeling that well. So I explained this to him cause he noticed that I didn’t seem interested in sex last night. He said I was being weird and not my usual self (I was moody to be fair) and he got upset and said I don’t love him.

Which isn’t fair, we have sex every time I see him, but this time I actually wasn’t in the mood. Eventually we did have sex, afterwards he said “you have no idea how much I love you so don’t be mean to me ever” I don’t think I was being mean I just wasn’t in the mood. Why does he get so upset? And no i rarely say no to sex unless I’m actually really not in the mood, we nearly always end up doing it anyway. Am I mean to him? :(

[Prezzi3]

Your not being mean to him, girl. 95% of the time my boyfriend and I have sex, but there’s five percent where he not feeling well or me, we get interrupted, or we both are too tired. He needs to be understanding. He wouldn’t have gotten any from me if I was you.

[Anonymous]

yeah he should leave you alone when you're feeling like that. if it's an "emergency" then maybe let him do a quickie but tell him he has to just go in and cum. and only one time, not every time is an emergency

[arun934]

I've read all you said. Actually he was in a mood that he should do sex at any cost. So he ten to speak like that. Take it easy. There's nothing to worry.

[chrisuk]

Sounds like a prick tbh. Will be in a controlled relationship very quickly. If you didn't fancy it don't do it.

[Asker]

He’s actually not a prick, he’s lovely to me but I think he feels rejected and insecure maybe if I’m not in the mood

[chrisuk]

Why would he feel rejected or insecure when you are laying beside him?

[oliver87]

It happens, u are right

[ZambieMouse]

He's an asshole.