So I was with my boyfriend yesterday. At about 3am he wanted to have sex. I wasn’t really in the mood because I was exhausted and already cranky from lack of sleep. I had a long day and work and then couldn’t get to sleep. I was also not feeling that well. So I explained this to him cause he noticed that I didn’t seem interested in sex last night. He said I was being weird and not my usual self (I was moody to be fair) and he got upset and said I don’t love him.
Which isn’t fair, we have sex every time I see him, but this time I actually wasn’t in the mood. Eventually we did have sex, afterwards he said “you have no idea how much I love you so don’t be mean to me ever” I don’t think I was being mean I just wasn’t in the mood. Why does he get so upset? And no i rarely say no to sex unless I’m actually really not in the mood, we nearly always end up doing it anyway. Am I mean to him? :(
Which isn’t fair, we have sex every time I see him, but this time I actually wasn’t in the mood. Eventually we did have sex, afterwards he said “you have no idea how much I love you so don’t be mean to me ever” I don’t think I was being mean I just wasn’t in the mood. Why does he get so upset? And no i rarely say no to sex unless I’m actually really not in the mood, we nearly always end up doing it anyway. Am I mean to him? :(
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