My boyfriend annoys me then asks how am I?

[Anonymous]

When he is in bad mood he is extra stupid and rude

I actually hate veing near him when he is like this, sometimes he controls sometimes not

I get kinda upset or even angry to some of his responses

To which he then starts making sure im ok:"are you ok? you sure? is it yes yes or not? are you sure its real yes? i can trust you, yeah? you ok?"

... oh man, come on!! he k nows perfectly why i get upset o quite and then he is asking me if im ok

Why he does it?

[Anonymous]

" he knows perfectly why I get upset or quiet" ard you certain that isn't an assumption on your part? Men aren't mind readers. Explain to him exactly what he does that makes you upset and why it makes you upset.

[Asker]

It was right afrer he did the thing
He knew

[Opinion Owner]

But he could be joking, and you don't share his sense of humor, so you get upset. He might not understand why you feel he's being hurtful.

[Asker]

I dunno... for me its:him hurting amd then early mocking asking what wrong to see if his behavoiur had desired effect on me