Why are people so mean to "ugly" people? (Page 2)

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I am a 16 year old girl in high school. In middle school  I was teased for being ugly and having a big nose . My freshman year and high school , I once walked into  the gym because I had to go to P.E. and the whole basketball team was laughing at me when I walked in, because I am ugly. I was always the butt of the Joke "your uglier than Alisha (that's my name)/that girl right there""she's so ugly " a girl in my gym glass once said as she whispered to her friend as she walked by while staring at me.I know it's not my personality, these people  don't know me personally. In the 10th grade, I audited a freshman class and the first day I walk in all the kids laugh at me and one girl said jokingly "Hey, my friend likes you!" This happens to me constantly "Hey, my friend like you" is what people say to me to tease their friends . I sometimes hear "Do you think that girl's pretty"  and usually they say no. People talk about me while sitting across from me, an inch away.  I am in the 11th grade now and as I was walking to the school buses a kid yelled at me at the window "Hey fat ass nose,  fat ass  nose!"  sometimes when I walk by people I hear them say "she has a big ass nose!"I never knew I had a big nose until someone told me. I just thought everyone had a different size nose . I never knew nose size was that important.  I have never had a boyfriend. I hate to go in public now because I'm worried what people will think of me. I just wanna be treated like a human. I feel like an outcast. I sometimes wish I owned a different face. I do not wish to have children because A. I doubt anyone would want to touch me and B. I don't want my kids to be teased. Why are humans so cruel? My self esteem is now a -13 .  I just wish I didn't know I was ugly so I could be more confident. What's wrong with people these days? I feel like I am at a lower class of human being.  I feel even worse for the fact that all they guys I crush on are the type I'd never have a chance with and they are always the "hot" popular guy at school. So why do people always put others down?

sorsapg · Answer

I didn't even read the text but, some people bully without even noticing its causing harm, like I did.

Some bully just to 'look cool' in front of others... like powerful and stuff..

Overall its all so damn childish and causes bad traumas for bullied people :(

Don't mind other peoples opinions about your looks, when a guy wants you you won't need another and you can't change who you are.

thisGUYknows · Answer

its high school.  everyone acts like they know what love and hate, beauty and ugliness is. almost everyone is shallow and a follower in HS. let the haters hate and move on. the thing that makes it worse is listening to them. f*** what they say. associate with the genuine people and let the assholes f*** off.  HS is complete bs. you'll see that everyone physically and emotionally changes afterwards.

ceshottie5 · Answer

cuz people are mean.  I get made fun of too and every time I feel conident guys shut me down.  guys think I am ugly too.  and they will tease me about their friends liking me too but it didn't reall matter  because the guys they said liked me I didn't even like and wasn't my type.  just try to be your best that what I do.  I didn't think I was ugly untill guys say it to me all the time

unsungzero · Answer

that really sucks. I feel for you.

they act this way because of social hierarchy and pecking order and also because they're insensitive assholes.

it'll get better after high school. the maturity level is much higher after high school. just hold out.

Cheekynicko · Answer

Kids are cruel and will tease anyone about anything.

It's difficult to do when it has been sustained but ignore it and wait for people to grow up. Ultimately don't get too hung up on what people thing about you.

dudeman · Answer

because they are ugly on the inside and they don't want anybody to see it so the turn the attention away from themselves

Anonymous · Answer

High school can be cruel, and some people just like putting others down, unfortunetly. =/

Do you have a close group of friends? Spend time with them, and family.

And maybe if you show that their words don't hurt you (even if it does) they'll stop teasing?

Drake742 · Answer

Forget about them, I was teased a lot in middle school and in high school for everything relentlessly. You have to love who you are, forget about what other people think. Life will get better please trust me.

7gnat · Answer

The sad thing is you have your beauty and people cannot see it. One day you will see it and then other people will. Just be careful with whom you share your soul to.  I hope you are doing OK. and wish you the best of luck

kiss_me_Kate · Answer

Natural selection... Evolve a sense of humour/personality to survive. That's what I did during grade school (I was chubby). Now I'm very attractive, and don't lack in the personality department.

makesumwake · Answer

wavcherry is right, only people with low self esteem make fun of others. its rude at best, and makes them look pathetic at worse.

Anonymous · Answer

just ignore what they say and say to yourself that those who matter matter and those who don't, don't.  the only ones who's opinion really matters should be your loved ones and God if you are religious.

Anonymous · Answer

I think folks put others down to make themselves feel superior in some way.To combat their own esteem issues. Lack of self esteem does that despite  the fact that they may seem  attractive or popular...

brianccc · Answer

I am so sorry I was in the same situation until they realized I could beat them all up

peace-love-couture · Answer

People are stupid.  Ignore them. They are ugly inside.

TheCheshireCat · Answer

Because they are shallow, idiots, & compelete douchbags.

slyshea · Answer

Those Bastards...forget about them,..chances are, once they hit 30, they be f*** ugly. lol

Anonymous · Answer

The same reason they are mean to fat people. Ignorance.

Anonymous · Answer

Why are teens so weak minded? Fine, join the ICP carnival.

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