It's not that the other option is unattractive because of the glasses or the shirt or whatever, it's that the average interaction has more value to me than the sexual appeal of the other option.
Sex lasts like 25mins Max, life is forever.
A good girl who truly loves a man won't ask for all of these...
men only care about looks and you can't blame them, that's how the nature works.
Everyone knows men only care about a woman's looks.
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Look comes before personality
I can say if a women is attractive in less than a second
but I need some months to know her personality
(some guys mean they can see that after one date, but I'm not so talented... LOL)
My experience is that women who are sure about their attractiveness level have better personalities and are better in line with their within.
Most female weirdos are those who have a desire to compensate some deficits in appearance (everybody has some) with their inflated egos.
I answered for both. Personality matters to both Men and Women when their attracted partner does not care so much for the views, values or opinions of other people. They like you. They know they like you because of who you are and how you act. That's who we fall in love with.
The rest is just their own personal confidence, taste, instincts and standards. Some people can't reconcile their personal feelings with "who they think they are." Not like it's easy but that's the crux of Personality vs. Looks. You can convince yourself something is more attractive than it might be, because of the many other reasons to value that thing.
Well, of the pictures I feel that the bottom one looks better... *shrugs*
As for the alternatives (text only) I don't feel either option accurately represents my views.
If all she have is looks and her personality is crap it doesn't matter how good she looks, I wouldn't be interested in her.
If all she has is a good personality and no looks then honestly I'd enjoy spending time with her if I *do* spend time with her.
But quite frankly I'd probably fail to notice her in the first place...
If she is to get and more importantly *keep* my attention she'll need a bit of both.
Looks to draw my attention to start with.
Personality to keep it.
No guy I know ever really feels like he’s “missing a relationship” nor does he want to “show her off” or in general show off that he has a job, money, cars, has traveled, has a house, wife. If he likes a girl he sticks with her but rarely mentions her to friends or family, if he has money he doesn’t talk about, if he has a job he sticks with it if it’s not grinding him up into hamburger too fast and never really talks about what it pays, guys in general seem to complain more about having to travel than talk about wanting to travel, the same goes for complaining about having to maintain a house rather than bragging about having one to begin with, married guys complain about their wives a lot as well…
Well everyone's motives are different. I am not much of a "show off" type person, even though I do well financially. For the context of the question I voted looks, because I feel that men that care about flaunting their accolades and prestige would want a physically attractive wife to also flaunt as another one of their material possessions. If I'm looking for a wife, I'm actually going to avoid even talking to women that look like supermodels because I would want to be with someone that cherishes growing together in a partnership based upon mutual love and interests, and doesn't even want to be spoiled.
Looks!! But it only works if she has a bitchy trashy personality,
was born into a spoiled life, doesn't wanna be spoiled, is a trash whore,
is a typical twat, starts drama, uses men for their dick and money,
flocks towards assholes, treats good men (and good women) like shit,
has never suffered nor been abused before, is doing just fine without any men or anyone else doing nice things for her, etc. But is she is a good woman, makes good choices, has never ONCE been spoiled, has been abused growing up, is damaged because of it, no good man shows interest in her.
They just there while some asshole harrasses her.
Most guys answered look? That is it I lost my last my last glimer of hope for my fellow men. Either that or I missed the point of the question...
Anyway why not both! I couldn't be with a women that I don't find attractive, but I woudn't give the time of day the most gorgeous woman in the world if she didn't had an apealing personality to me. This might sound bs, but I actually take pride in it.
That being said I answered personality. I would prefer an amazing girl than an amazing looking girl any day! They make me feel for them in ways that just beauty can't. They make me want to spoil them and make them happy.
Side note: If the question was about being a sugar daddy I am out! I have a good job, but I want an independent girl.
No matter people here saying i prefer personality but deep down inside looks is the first thing you notice in a person, and they will be serious for good-looking girls and more appreciate the effort of a woman with personality. Everyone is the same in this case
I would pay an attractive woman to have sex with me even if she did not have a good personality. If she has a good personality, great, otherwise whatever it will be over in an hour or so.
I would not pay an ugly women for sex even if she had a great personality. Sure I may try to be a friend with her (unlikely), but I would not buy an ugly prostitute, no way.
I think it's more on the looks than the personality. If a woman is hot and sexy - they are seen more as high maintenance so their partner try to keep up with that.
We're programmed to yo for looks but that's a recipe for disaster.
My current girlfriend is probably the least attractive girlfriend I've ever had but absolutely kills it in every other regard.
And I'm way happier then I was when I was dating younger better looking women
No woman with a personality would allow herself to be bought, so your best bet is to make yourself look pretty.
I love expensive high class women. I love spoiling them and having her in my arm to flaunt.
I take my own wife on expensive vacations, loves that she is a stay at home wife that works out to stay hot, and give her carte blanche to shop. Treat her to the local Louis Vuitton store while on vacation.
Looks, obviously. You even get free stuff from men you don't know. It's a privilege of being beautiful.
You can experiment it with dating website.
Call me crazy, but I'm not interested in a sexy BITCH, at all. A sexy LADY, on the other hand... Well, they don't have to try too hard with me. I give credit where credit is due, and a lady deserves credit.
Both.
Looks brings people together,
Personality lets them stay together.
If one of both is missing, its not worth it.
Seriously! I work and take care of myself my whole life... We just need sweet gestures and kind words. Looks and personality can go both ways for men or women. If its love that you're looking for then you better do some soul searching first before you even use that word on a woman. Deep connection is hard to find especially with emotionless men running around.
I spoil based upon personality. And while I am attracted to many different physical attributes. I usually like one personality trait in particular in women.
Looking at the poll we can see why men and women have such a hard time connecting.
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