Why do some guys like to spoil woman?

[Anonymous]

I love my man. I hardly ever ask for much. I do things for him sometimes, but not as much as he does for me. I wish i could, but my budget just does not allow it. He always wants to make me happy. He says I am his princess. Sometimes he can be a little clingy, and over emotional. I still love him dearly. To be honest it is refreshing. My last ex was really narcasistic, and selfish. He forced me to buy off the dollar menu, and he would get himself a meal. He also did not seem to care if my blood sugar was low, or if I was low on food, and going hungry. Even my roommate cares more than my ex did. I do not get how some men are so cold hearted, and others are way nicer. Sometimes I feel like my man does to much for me. I am not used to it. I grew up in a bad home, and my parents practically ignored me most the time. Why do you think he likes spoiling me?

[staytrue2]

It's a love and care thing. My fiance is my heart and soul, i would do anything for her, and seeing her smile brightens my mood for the entire day. Just let him spoil you and try to return the favor in as many ways you can. you don't need to spend money to spoil him. give him a back rub, cook him dinner. let him know that you know your own history and appreciate having the type of man who cares for you and adds value to your life.

Good Luck!

[hypno-trip]

Girls are so pretty and lovely if I had a girlfriend I'd do everything I can to make her happy. I'd figure out what her favorite food is and then make it for her when she comes back from work.

Some guys just want to please their girl cause they're tired of being lonely and un-loved and they're good guys who deserve love too！

[hypno-trip]

He's just trying to be extra-nice. Maybe you're not used to it and you find him too "clingy and emotional" you can tell him and I think he can change...

[misscoffeehead]

Aww that's so cute! He sounds like a keeper! I guess it's a sign of affection. He loves you, and taking care of you is probably a way he shows you that you mean a lot to him.

That's hella cute ^^* nawww! I'm like all mushy like a marshmallow here hahaha

[RationalLioness]

It's a way for them to show their appreciation towards women, I think. Or maybe he feels that every woman of his should be treated royally.

No, I don't think he's spoiling you though.

[DALEDUDE]

I definitely fall into the category of men who love to spoil his beloved woman. Yet, admittedly, spoiling the women I've loved has at times worked against me. What I gave out of the kindness of my heart became "the expected." And later, the expected became "the demanded." Each time this happened, I was left with no choice but to move on.

Now a days, I'm a bit more measured and guarded as to how much I will spoil a woman. Regardless, it's something I love and look forward to doing.

[I_am_repulsive]

To let them know how much I care about them in materialistic means. I know I spend as much time as I can already with my SO, but giving you gifts is one of the other way I can show how appreciative I am for everything you've she's done for me.

[I_am_repulsive]

giving her gifts*

[Jessedempsey32]

He likes spoiling you because he loves you. Take it from me. I do the same for my girlfriend. She's my princess. Today I bought her a rose, wrote in a card I was thankful to have her in my life, bought her dinner, and got her toes and nails done. If he spoils you he loves you.

[TheSpaceGnome]

They are insecure and think they have to spoil a woman to keep her.

[Iron_Man]

Because they want them so bad they will do what ever it take to have them in there lives

[chrisbigman]

To let them know how much they love them - either in the truest sense or the materialistic sense.