Why would men risk it and not use protection first time you have sex and come inside?

[Anonymous]

So, I noticed my recent hook-ups always been with guys who didn't want to use any protection from the start and most of the time they would come inside me. Why would a man have unprotected one night stand with a woman and why would he risk having a baby with a woman that he barely even knows? They wouldn't even ask me if I am on the pill. Is it because they are attracted to me or is it because they just dont care? Thank god i am on the pill, so I have nothing to worry about but I find it very strange that they would risk it

[jmzero]

I'm a big advocate of Condon use and use the everytime. But there are reasons.

In my experience it's for fear of killing the mood. there's not really a "sexy" way of putting on a condom.

Some condoms are uncomfortable (cheap ones).

In addition adding a condom pretty much eradicates oral and manual stimulation (imagine putting a layer of latex over your vagina-pleasure gone) so any foreplay or mid way stimulation is useless.

In addition if you like "moneyshots" it's a whole nother amusing mess. pulling one off at the last moment can lead to some... interesting results

[Asker]

but why would a man take the risk and finish inside if he doesn't even know me? are they attracted to the idea of getting me pregnant or is it just for pure pleasure? I never heard of a situation where a guy would not only not use condom but a guy wouldn't choose to come inside especially if its a hook-up

[jmzero]

Well I have in the past been excited by the possibility or risk of pregnancy so I'm sure there are some men out there that find that as well.
When it comes to hookups a lot of men get lost in the pleasure so dont really pay attention to the possible consequences and when reality does come back into focus its already done so no point in thinking on it now.

Do you ever try to encourage other things (mouth, breasts, stomach, etc.)? Men are usually happy to participate when a woman says she desire a result. It often excites them more... usually.

[Stoner710]

Unfortunately they don’t care. (. My honest response is there a bunch of fucking idiots who clearly don’t know what it takes to raise a child Hell I don’t even know what it takes to raise a child I’ve tried help raising my nieces and nephews but I don’t have any kids of my own).

My best guess is there drunk and so there not thinking. Personally when I become a father I’m going to raise the child as best as I can, I except my nephew to do the same thing at some point this month

[sukiaria]

I don't know I've had guys that refused to use condoms too and i just go w it, i think they 1. dont care and 2. just assume you're going to "take care of it" (this can mean multiple things"

[Neeceeb7]

Same reason you had sex with them. You might be on the pill but you can still catch something. I'd say your dating the wrong guys

[TaureanBull81]

I go bareback and are used to it without condoms.

[Intraluminal]

Simple. Their risk of contracting a disease from you is much lower than your risk of getting a disease from them.

Think about it. How are STIs transmitted? By body FLUIDS. Who RECEIVES more FLUIDS? YOU do.

As for babies? They can give false information. Good luck getting them to help pay for any babies.

[Anonymous]

They and you are extremely reckless because you obviously let them do it (yes, sex without a condom is much more pleasurable for both the guy and you, I get that) and it sounds like your penis count is very high, and increasing, so the chances of you contracting std's, or even hiv, must be considerable !

[TaureanBull81]

I always have unprotected sex with a sex partner whether it's a regular friends with benefits or serious relationship partner from the very beginning!

Wearing a condom is a deal breaker for me because there are benefits of sex without a condom – which you won’t hear in those sex ed classes. They include:

1. You becoming a lot more motivated to have sex!
2. You inspire a lot more trust and devotion in your sex partner whom you're sleeping with.
3. You get a lot more pleasure!

[MrNameless]

They are reckless and not thinking about the the consequences of diseases and pregenancy. Case in point, sex without condoms feels the best physically. That's why they are doing it.

[spartan55]

Is there something stopping you from bringing up birth control before sex? You have responsibility too, especially if you are fucking moron guys who just blow it in you without asking.

[spartan55]

And why do you think it has anything to do with attraction? Explain the connection, because I don't get that at all.

[Ripper_E]

They don't care and it feels better for them.
If I did not have to worry about STI's or anything, and I have a woman's consent, I would never use a condom and would always cum inside.

[chezburgr]

I dont know. Me personally I despise condoms, but I'll still ask and double check.

[Asker]

would u ever have unprotected one night stand and come inside her? Also, why would a man ever do that? has it got anything to do with how attractive the woman is?

[chezburgr]

Not using a condom is personal preference cause it feels way better, but for them to come inside you without asking is pretty scummy in my opinion.

[Holy_Ghost_Fire]

Pregnancy is not a disease nor a side effect. Having a baby isn‘t something risky.

Maybe because men value virility more than women value fertility.

[MissDawn7961]

read your bible and ask God

[Keeshatalks]

I have had a few guys who refused to use condoms

[Silent_Eyes]

They just don't care