Why does he keep watching my stories when he ghosted?

[Anonymous]

This guy and I were seeing each other for THREE months. Everything was great and then all of a sudden he freaked out, said he wasn't ready for a relatioship and I was moving too fast for him and asked for space. Came back two weeks later, said he wanted to still see me but asked to go slow only to ghost me a week later LOL What I don't get is that he's literally the FIRST one to always watch my stories on insta. He never likes or comments, just watches them like a creep. Like why even bother to keep tabs on me since he obviously doesn't want to talk me?

[Lauren-green]

Omg do you not realise how social media works? You click on one story and it just continuously goes through everybodies stories of the people that you follow. OMG just because he has watched your story does not make him "a creep" and he's not "keeping tabs" on you. He watched your story ffs biiiig deeeal 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[spartan55]

@Lauren-green
I am honestly so happy a pink user wrote this. I was starting to think I was on my own little island.

[Lauren-green]

It's so annoying the amount of questions like this haha

[Asker]

Well actually, no. He's not just automatically looking at everyone's story one after the next. How do I know? Because he's literally the first one to watch mine minutes after I post AND he doesn't look at every single picture. Sometimes he will only look at the first two or three that I post (I have multiple ones up) So yeah, that's how I know he purposefully looks at mine

[Lauren-green]

You don't know that unless you ask him. Also he's not keeping tabs on you or being a creep if he doesn't watch the full story, if he was stalking you or being creepy or whatever, wouldn't he watch your full story? You're clearly reading into this too much. It's social media and means noooothing 🤦🏻‍♀️

[spartan55]

@Lauren-green
You would have better luck talking to that wall behind you.

[spartan55]

Yet another girl who believes that if he likes my pics or stories... OMG HE STILL LIKES ME!
Eh, actually that has nothing to do with anything. He is checking to see if there is a sexy picture nothing else.