"I Think Men Talk To Women So They Could Sleep With Them And Women Sleep With Men So They Could Talk To Them" -Jay Mclenery?

[daliah]

Do you agree with this saying?

[OrganicManic420]

Absolutly not! My closest friends have been wemon. Not only that they were also 3 my age sometimes. my one best friend growing up was in her 40's, she taught me how to garden unfortunately I lost her when I was 19. I use to have a friend in high school. She was my biggest teen connection I had also my crush. We talked for hrs each night. She had a boyfriend or I was seeing somone else and we never dated or hooked up. Personally I had to much respect for myself my relationships and outher people. She tried to kiss me once and i denied her because I was seeing somone. She was shocked but accepting. We lost contact for 10 years I then found her again, we dated for 2 years and she left me. blamed me for everything. Meanwhile I was the only person whom ever treated her right. Gave her loyalty and trust. On the outher hand she stole all my belongings once I was kicked out her mother's. Stole my buyout money from gm. She took me for over 7 grand. Used me dragged me along for months was talking behind my back to ex's playing the agenst me playing the victuum. Well in all honesty I'd like to make her that but I don't know I'm too much a bigger person. Months before this I felt she wasn't happy, we both suffered depression but she used it as an excuse, didn't work but she did have health issues scoliosis of spine and 3 metal rods in her back. Altho I broke both heals and my spine tailbone 5 ribs sternum shoulder collarbone and many more I have no idea how she feels. But she definitly up played it, she's nothing but a victim in her own sad sad reality. It breaks my heart I loved her to pieces, I would give my liver and kidneys for her (she blamed me on making her cancer come back) and i tried to give her that and offered to make thc oil but the smoke settled and i seen through her. I won't date again I'm done with gambling. I have two kids two different wemon, n first one cheated I fought her in court 50g to obtain my son due to neglect and abuse. She still try to hurt me to this day! That was 9 years ago, my daughters mom is borderline personality dissorder and im always wrong. Theirs no winning, so why bother playing. I would have been sitting on well over 100k likely 200 if I never dated and in only 29... The world is a sad place and humanity is descusting

[IroncladCat7599]

I don't because I don't talk to women to sleep with them. I like talking to girls because girls appeal more to my sensitive and romantic side. Sensitive because guys don't give a shit about feelings unless he's gay. Well, my friends don't like talking about all the mushy deep stuff unless it's my gay friend😂. And romantic as in about girls and stuff not flirting or anything. Like how girls are and they can also talk about guys. Stuff like that. I don't give a damn about sleeping with a girl. I'll sleep with the girl I love, when I find her😊. Sleeping with a girl is the last thing I think about. Being with someone who you can open up to and just chill out with without being guy judged is good😌

[daliah]

👏👏

[AlienParasite]

It's a generalization, it might have some truth but it's not 100% true.

I would never have sex with a guy to be able to talk, besides I wouldn't have sex with a guy if I can't talk with him and feel a connection first, and some guys around me are about the same.

Is almost the same to a saying I read when I was a teen in a psychology book about dealing with teens that my parents had, but in this case the saying said: "Women give sex in order to receive love, men give love in order to receive sex". When I was a teen I though it could make some sense but I as grew up and met different kind of men and women and now I can't agree that much.

[Anonymous]

It probably depends on the person.

Personally, I won't sleep with anyone just to keep from being lonely and to have someone to be with and talk to. I've never slept with anyone yet and only will if I feel ready and like they are the right person to do it with. So far, that hasn't happened yet and I'm okay if it does or doesn't.

However, while this statement may be true for certain people, it may be the opposite in certain cases. There are women who just want sex, and men who want a meaningful relationship, too.

[mistixs]

All my online friends are male, so I can talk to men without sleeping with them. If I had to sleep with a man in order to talk to him, then I wouldn't sleep with him *or* talk to him.

by the way I asked a similar question once & the poll got more than 100 votes, so here it is:
In your personal experience, is this quote accurate? ↗

[mobligator]

Thats almost synonymous to; "men give a little loving to get a little sex and women give a little sex to get a little loving". There is some truth to this but in todays society women are almost as interested in getting sex as the men. Maybe its always been that way but in the generations before the 1960's most women didn't act as though they were as interested in sex as the men were.

[JakeMist86]

Sounds like someone is trying to justify their shallowness with flawed reasoning. I don't agree, but I am also not out to notch my belt. I generally find women more interesting to talk to than men, likely because they will more readily tell you about their lives are are more open with people. I am sexually interested in people I have a connection with, if I can't talk to her or she is a fool I don't generally have any interest in her, even if she is pretty.

[princessde]

Wrong. They talk to each other coz it's human nature. Humans need Companionship. You can't live alone. Spending time with someone is much better than spending time alone. You'd love to make memories too. With time, you feel better and better with that same person and that's how you build trust and unknowingly you feel so good that why would you not kiss him and end up romancing? So on and so forth :p

[Anonymous]

This is retarded.
This is psychoanalytics at its finest. everything is about sex haha

I talk to women if they seem interesting or I can learn something from them. Sometimes I do it because I feel attracted to them.
Women dont need to screw guys to have someone to talk to either.

Sometimes writers write things about themselves, in this case this is how Jay McClenery feels about his interactions with women. its indicative that he views women as potential sexual partners, and if he doesn't, why bother talking with them? so many implications here.
Also I am familiar with this author, his claim to fame was writing about an aspiring writer who blows his money on cocaine and screws a bunch of girls in manhattan. His model girlfriend leaves him, and he begins to spiral further out of control.

[jmorris86]

I mean I get the quote and it does convey the differences between men and womens personalities but it is a generality and not always accurate. Men talk to women for a lot of reasons other than sex. In high school my best friend was a girl and not once did I think of sleeping with her.

[Swat_]

Can people just fuck off with the stereotypical bullshit? No, not all men want to sleep around. Why do people think that their lives is how everyone lives?

"Oh, men constantly one night stand me, that's just how men work." Yeah, in a nightclub maybe.

If you want to talk to men, talk to men who want to talk. If you can only talk to men when you sleep with them, thats your own faupt.

[MrOracle]

I think that it's definitely true SOMETIMES. But it's far from always being true.

[charlie_all_night]

That's silly.. Sometimes I just ask women things to get a perspective from a different gender.. Not many people think alike but we want to believe that if we ask opposite sex how they see or feel it possibly brings some comfort an understanding to situations

[Liam_Hayden]

No. I talk to women because I like them and they intrigue me. The vast majority of the time they are trying to get intimate before I am.

[Alfie_Solomons]

It's the other way around. Most of my friends lost their virginity because their girlfriends pushed them into it. I've seen this so many times at parties, girls asking their boyfriends to go upstairs with them, even though all he was doing was having a good time and socializing. So no, this is not only completely incorrect, it's also the reverse of how modern society actually is.

[Jaysonava]

Hmmmm. Not quite.

I feel sexual dynamics are actually very social by nature. So I feel people look for 'intimacy' which is both the sex and the partnership.

Men who want no strings attached sex can get it easily.

[Moonchild714]

As often a Generalized statement based on a minority group. Unhealthy men and women behave this way and the roles go both ways.

[MrxPranav]

No it's not true, some men like me just want a good relationship with women and if I feels she is the women what I am searching for. I would like to spend my life with her

[Little_Princesa]

Im glad men like you exist

[pattyjones]

Yes, but I heard it put in a different way.

Women fake sex to get love.
Men fake love to get sex.

[Lehlani]

I agree only to a certain extent because it just depends on the person. Not all girls and guys are that way.

[N192K001]

lol The guy has never been to Saudi Arabia has he?

Though integration is spreading across the globe, separation of men & women has existed in cultures across the globe for centuries. The existence of these societies disproves the statement.

[SkipStop]

Not completely. The whole "Men are only interested in sex" stuff is false. Plenty of guys simply want to be romantic and feel her touch. It doesn't have to be sexual. And I don't think a woman needs to sleep with a man to talk to him.

[Robb_]

That sounds silly. Not saying that those people don't exist, though. But most of them are not like that.

[daliah]

Yeah, I think a lot of men and women are like this but necessarily all.

[COMMODOREII]

Nope. I talk to women because i need to communicate to someone about something and the ones i have to talk to are women. It has nothing to do with sex.