All Men think women are gold diggers😢?

Question

Lately there's been an influx of guys calling all us girls gold diggers and it happens very often now. I am so completely sick of men calling us gold diggers. Every other guy on here keeps saying women are gold diggers and that we all only want their money and that's the only way we are attracted to them.
no matter how you explain them and how often you tell them that its not true, they keep doing this bullshit over and over again and every day they will say women are all gold diggers. They're so stubborn and lump us together because of how many gold diggers? 3? 6? 10? Yeah, i know, gold diggers are out there and i hate them as much as everybody else does.
but how am i supposed to have faith in men now when they keep calling us all gold diggers? Do men have any amount of respect left for us women?
i can't take it anymore! I'm so done for!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think the term gold digger is overused. Most women are not true gold diggers. However, most women ARE attracted to money. It is a scientifically proven fact that a man becomes more "physically attractive" to women as his perceived salary increases. That is, when a picture of a man is shown to women and they are asked to rate his physical appearance, the rating the same man is given increases in direct correlation with the salary they are told he earns. For example, the physical appearance of the very same man would be rated on a scale of 1 to 10 as a 5 if he earned $50K, a 7 if he earned $150K and a 9 if he earned $300K.

And there is nothing wrong with that; it is female human nature and it is driven by their DNA, so it's difficult to be judgmental about it. But what I do not appreciate is the dishonesty of most women about the subject.

As for men having respect for women, that is a two way street and I think it is fair to say that it is women who are far more guilty of that than men are today.

hahahmm · Accepted Answer

Maybe 10% of women aren’t looking to get more out of a man than they give him. And that 10% are mostly lesbians and rich career women with butch hair and 40 cats that no non-freeloading male would want.

Women talk about ‘love’ because it’s the magical service they can claim is worth 70% of the guy’s income plus death benefits, the house & so on. Of course she has to pretend that his love is worth less than hers.

But men know the game. Feminism removed all the benefits of a man supporting a woman plus lots of women have their own money. That last bit is a problem for women because by nature they want to date & marry up. The more money women have the harder it is for them to do that. Especially given that most dudes prefer younger women & these women wasted their best years on their career & bed hopping instead of finding a good man.

It will all make more sense to you as you get older

holograph · Answer

Communication between the genders is difficult when we have slightly different expectations (due to cultural "norms") and basically everyone has negative experiences with the opposite gender. People get hurt and frustrated and they lash out by making general statements. I think most people know that they aren't literally true.

As a guy, nearly every day I see a question that asks or implies that I am a rapist or a murderer or that I have no goals in life other than sleeping with women or any of other various ways that people disrespect guys.

If I had kids I wouldn't even be able to take them to the park without some people questioning me.

I'm sorry that some men call women gold diggers, though. I honestly find that immature.

Most women don't generalize men as rapists, and most men don't generalize women as gold diggers. It's just that those who do are bitter and they feel their voice must be heard.

lightbulb27 · Answer

I was going to joke that we need to use the term bitcoin diggers since Gold is so passe for the moment. but that's a joke.

I haven't called anyone a GD, and a lot of guys don't... but some do. I think what you are running into is guys are having a hard time holding up their traditional side of the relationship to provide. As well they react poorly to the reality that women want secure resources [this triggers them they aren't so they deflect back on the woman... a very immature thing to do], a guy with drive, ambition and resources to provide for good life. That's the majority of females, wired into the genome because of the realities of the world we live in. Offspring have much better chance with resources.

There are gold digger females.. and probably men as well... e. g. they are looking for a cash out from life rather than love, relationship, etc..

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Well, society as a whole is more superficial now than previous generations, so it makes sense there would statistically be more gold diggers, and as a result, more men suspicious of *potential* gold diggers.

Of course, it's not fair to simply assume that "all" or "most" women are gold diggers. Quality men know what they want in a woman, and are perceptive enough to notice it when it's in front of them. Quality men OBSERVE and respond based on what they witness-- low-quality men ASSUME based on generalisations, and fail to accurately assess women on a case-by-case basis.

Anonymous · Answer

They know it’s not true they just ignore it and deny it. They are being fake and manipulative like animals. Just shows what kind of pos people they are.

What a guy can provide is appealing to any girl. They are mad cause they are broke as f maybe so now it’s yours and every women’s fault who need money. You shouldn’t feel bad or have too. Guys care more about looks and personality and women care more about what a guy can bring to the table and provide. What future do you honestly see with all those people without any. I’ll answer for you. There isn’t one. They are just jealous as f and it’s sickening. It’s not anyone else’s problem why they are broke as hell and least desirable for long term commitment. And they know that too. They are just trying to control and manipulate you. You aren’t the problem they are. It has nothing to do with you. It’s them and their insecurities.

NerdInDenial · Answer

Don’t have faith in men or women. People will let you down, but do not be ashamed of your instincts. You naturally desire a partner who can provide and protect. That translated in modern times means money, power, and fame.

Reviller17 · Answer

Not all men think that, well for the moment I have been lucky enough to not go out with one, so I really see women as independent and that actually care for the feelings and emotion than just material stuff.

CT_CD · Answer

Female nature.

"Parental investment hypotheses regarding mate selection suggest that human males should seek partners featured by youth and high fertility. However, females should be more sensitive to resources that can be invested on themselves and their offspring"

"Researchers concluded that women are significantly more sensitive to salary information when considering a partner compared to men."

sawno · Answer

I don't think most women are gold diggers, if your willing to date a rich guy your obviously not genuinely attracted to then you are one. But i haven't met girls like that myself as they are never in the sorts of crowds i would be in.

N192K001 · Answer

No, there are those who think women are, but that's not everyone. For me, all the innocent until proven guilty. This is true for me especially, given what's happened to me due to rumors.

Anonymous · Answer

There are literally studies that prove women are hypergamous gold diggers that’s just care about a mans resources it’s just female nature

LoU_Hades · Answer

no... Somehow most men have a GF/wife, we aren't all millionaires.

muddywaters33 · Answer

Only broke ass dudes generalize all women as gold diggers. Of course she's a gold digger dude, she constantly diggin in her purse to pay for dinner for your broke ass! 😂😂😂

GreenGold1992 · Answer

I apologize on behalf of my fellow lonely, single, bitter men who're giving us a bad name for accusing all women of being gold diggers.

Anonymous · Answer

Not all. But ones that expect 50/50 from a divorce are. When they habent earnt close to that.

DWornock · Answer

Of course women deny it, but their actions prove otherwise.

Ripper_E · Answer

No. It's obvious when they are.

Princeofaljazeeera · Answer

i honestly think all women are gold diggers, i always thought it was 90% but now 100%

Anonymous · Answer

We don't think ALL women are gold diggers, but the majority of women want a guy who has more money than them.

NorthwestRider · Answer

I do not believe all women are gold diggers

ecfresh · Answer

Nope

esotericstory · Answer

I respect women every day.

JayLiche · Answer

All women are capable of being goldiggers

Ihavenoclue_ · Answer

Another gold digger 🤔

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