If a guy calls me "bro" or "nigga" or "man", I'm friendzoned?

[Anonymous]

So Im not necessarily into these guys.. but I met them on a dating app
They are always the ones initiating contact but they do call me "bro" or "nigga" etc
For example:

Guy#1 - hey whats up?
Me - not much, you?
Guy#1 - just done my training, what u doing tomorrow?
Me - oh just work
Guy#1 - oh nigga u must be busy all the time
Me - no shit nigga
Guy#1 - was going to ask u to come see me tomorrow

Guy#2 - you like hiking?
Me - not really, do you?
Guy#2 - yeah bro ofcourse I like to keep fit and active, we should go hiking one weekend

The fk? Lol
Such a big turn off for us women

Yes

No

[1stPlace]

Doesn't mean he's friendzoned you. Some people are together and they call each other bro. Might not be the norm, but it happens.

What is says to me is that he's not overly-concerned with trying to impress you. That's actually a good thing in my opinion. Better than being a try-hard. Now, if he's doesn't show any signs of affection or anything, THAT cis what you need to pay attention to: this could mean he's not interested and only sees you as a casual pal.

[Sonorous]

I voted "no" because I've jokingly used both of those on girls I've liked in the past. I wouldn't jump to any conclusions unless he tells you upfront that he sees you as only a friend. That's really the only 100% sure way of knowing. 👌

[Nxtawm]

If it's them messaging you first on a dating app then wouldn't be a friend son in my opinion, may just be way of speech. I say or call people dude, bro and bruh all the time

[spartan55]

A good rule of thumb is to avoid any guy who refers to a female I those terms. I really wouldn't worry about the whole friendzone thing.

[spartan55]

*in those terms

[adriheart7]

That’s just disrespectful, but then again, that’s the way some guys talk ig.

[buttcrackjoe]

Not friendzoned they’re just trying to build rapport with you by making the conversation laid back im sure they still want the vag

[DiamondQueenOfAce]

Yeah that’s the friend zone

[Thatsamazing]

Yep. Also he's a moron.

[Anonymous]

Why hes' using the n word, I don't know