Is it true that if a guy wants you he'll go after what he wants, even if he's 'shy'? (Page 2)
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I don’t think any guy can want a girl enough to the point in which he breaks through his very severe social anxiety jus to get you,
unless... not for me anyway... Iv only wanted girls a tiney bit cos they’re hot, but definitely not enough to where I would risk rejection and look like a complete bafoon and embarrass myself by trying to talk to her,
i rather jus masturbate to porn, much less risk
Not necessarily.
With some you must do it to show you have what's needed to be a compatible partner.
Some other's are just like females in this area.
If you in to him do what's needed instead of being the passive one. (one in the bunch female)
Men deal with just as much pressure as women when I comes to being interested in someone... only ussually men have to initiate everything which for some one shy or unsure it becomes extremely difficult... if your interested either ask him or at least make yourself easier to approach help him build the confidence up to talk to you
Most of us guys are shy and most of us do not know how to show that we like you so you girls are better off approaching us, Because thats usually the only way anything is going to happen.
When Guys flirt with Girls he is considered a player and when you Girls flirt with us you are just considered to like us and/or being friendly so out of any interaction you Girls usually come out on top.
If he is shy you will have a lot of time to wait untill he will do anything only what you will get is him around at random times very often 'accidentally' near you.
You will have to make a first move, if you like him, just not in front other people...
Nervous and stuttering two things will motivate a man, poontang and water. Like the gazelle he may be shy approaching the watering hole, but approach he shall, shaking, terrified and wavering back and forth. For to not approach is death.
No if you like a guy too Tho as a girl it’s your job to show him your not trying to avoid him that means talking to him etc it’s the guys job to do the same and make the first move aka asking you to hang out
From when I was full on shy, no. Quite the contrary. He may want you a lot, but putting themselves in that position... Just won't- or is highly unlilely- to happen. You'll have to do something tbh.
Hell no, I eventually learned to overcome my shyness, but I'd say there's a very low chance of a guy as shy as I was of confessing to a girl he likes, unless he already knows you know, then maybe.
Nope.
80% of males will never approach... 10% will only approach when the time is absolutely perfect.
The other 10% are the snakes who approach every female and don't care is you say no because they will just be asking the next girl a minute from then.
I think it's more like 70% will never approach. 10% will only approach when the time is perfect. 10% percent are really socially awkward and always seem to pick the wrong time/method to approach. And 10% are the snakes aka fuckboys.
your asking if a shy guy will break his shyness to go after you? well then he wouldn't be a shy guy now would he? you've thought yourself into a paradox... a person can only be what they are and never what you want them to be.
by the way, how do you know he likes you? stalker much?
No, if a guy is shy, the chances of him making a move are low. Doesn't mean he won't, but she isn't showing him he is interested, then he probably won't do anything.
No, it is not true. There are plenty of people out there - including guys - who aren't able to get their shit together and find the courage to go for what they want.
For me, if I really like a girl I'll be friends with her and get to know her. But like, I used to like try and avoid talking or being around the girls I liked cause I was afraid to embarrass myself.
I'd say he is nervous and likes u a lot just doesn't want to get shot down. Maybe if you like him to, throw some hints his way.
Nope not true especially nowadays. Guys are starting to wise up and weigh the negatives and positives. Majority of times the juice ain’t worth the squeeze
Nope. There is a girl that I want... but I just don't want her enough. Freedom is her competition...
Why don't you want her enough? Can you elaborate?
Mostly it's that nothing beats waking up on a sunny weekend, with the whole day ahead that is 100% free for me to do what ever I please. No obligations, no expectations, and no interruptions.
The other part is that I don't think she's relationship material anyway.
Certainly not, some need more reassurance before attempting anything, even if that is a normal conversation with you
He may want you plenty, but his nerves petrify him. He does need to get over it, m but just because he hasn't doesn't mean he doesn't want it enough. It is probably tearing him up inside with anxiety.
If he likes you it doesn't mean he will go after you. And being shy and being confident has nothing to do with that. Maybe shy people are more shy about it but also being confident won't make him do it.