There is a whole deep level of human psychology there (1) They actually believe they will do (2) They are bigging themselves up (3) They want to get into the pants of the person they are interesting in
To a degree in real life, online we are all about making an impression invariably we want to make the best one possible. Here to me is what is important while I won't lie and say I am totally truthful , I am not but I am close to it if for whatever reason my true persona was revealed, I don't think people would be shocked. Now we go into the territory of overstating stuff, what you are talking about is just as bad as telling a girl you live in a mansion, earn 500k a year - You are telling her a lie if you make false promises , I will give wiggle room for those folks who make promises and believe them at the time, I often do that myself in the cold light of day "Oh Oh I shouldn't have said that, I don't think it is possible for me to fulfil that" - It becomes a weird one of do I tell her it is too much for me, break myself trying to do it or maybe pretend it never happened. For those keeping track I think option A the best, keep her informed
Well owly girl the majority of guys make empty promises just to attract girls to them because they know where the weak points in a girl are just like a girl knows where the weak points are in a man.
I personally never make promises that i can't keep because in my life i never knew what a lie is...
Don't think it's easy for someone to be always honest!
All i know is that i want true love and a girl to make her my housewife and live an eternal happy life, i will surely take good care of her and always be there for her and she will be a part of me and she will always be my 1st priority...
Do u ask me? Cause I often use a moon and stars in my words. 😂
1st~the moon represents how much a beauty u r in our view, and moon wasn't on full moon everyday but I still believe and have a strong faith to u. Others might say it was a heart/love (due to science, it something like similar power with your heart beat, I'm not sure)
2nd~the star was hot such as u, and each stars is a galaxy, which content so many species but I choose u. Would u say that to me, for me this metaphor was deeper than a L. O. V. E word😂 Sometimes it make me curious if my understanding is same with the other😂. Common is rare actually, if u found it don't lost it 🥂
It's easy to be dreamy and creative (if we have that skill), but doesn't mean we have the skills to implement. So this is a development issue for those guys you choose, not all guys.
It could be we learned this crap as children "I'll give you the moon" ... is just our minds jacked up on the chemicals caused by your feminine beauty. It's your fault😇
Honest political incorrect answer: To have sex with you. Hookup culture made guys Masters at acting. Promiscuous women are very easy to manipulate if you say the right things Most of the guys these days have no problem lying to women because they are lied to many times before. This casual sex culture becomes a real problem for people who are genuine. Every time you get lied to (false promises) you lose a bit trust in people in general and at some point you assume everyone is lying. That is the point where you start selfsabotaging yourself by questioning everything another guy/girl you meet. It is a protection mechanism. These days everybody lies to eachother and guys know most women talk with many other guys without them knowing. So your question is the result of the well celebrated hookup culture what is changing people into shallow persona who don't know the definition of promise anymore. Both sexes have a hand in this behaviour. Think this is accurate in this case
Probably because most women will chase the dream even when they don't truly believe it, so the guy that is open and honest remains single and the bullshit artist gets the girl, who learns to hate him in a couple of years but still falls for the same sales pitch from a different guy.
Because women these days like words. They don't hold guys accountable. I do. I look at actions not words. If your going to do it, do it. Otherwise, your talking out of your ass. That's what I say. People will give you false expectations. That's why you d9mt tell them what you want. You let them prove it THROUGH ACTIONS.
Ok so why do women promise to not cheat and then do exactly that, why promise to be honest when truth and women are total strangers. Why hold men to a different standard but expect them to treat you as equals.
Why expect fantasy over reality are women really that shallow they are unable to mature past being little girls dreaming of unicorns and rainbows.
Fact is this, men and women are neither perfect so if your going to throw stones the first leave your glass house
In all honesty I feel it has to do with the women who were promised not seeing just how much he actually sacrifices or does for them in the longevity of all their time together. Or, possibly that the woman has a hard time understanding there's a give-and-take scale that eventually breaks them after they bend so far backwards.
Most just want to get in your pants and fck you! After that, those losers move on to the next victim, of their joy!! Any guy that really cares, really likes you, and might love you, won't want sex, or even suggest it, until you know each other, and there is trust, and you share a lot in common.
Its because we are human afraid of loss and end up tripping. I tripped before. I have also had an ex trip on me so hard and admit she was tripping on the one thing I told her not to do.
Because they hope to get the attention, and get laid, while the moon and stars are in the process of being brought to your door. But then, there's always a problem with the delivery system, isn't there?
Well Women want way way to much an they make it so so very hard on a man so its just easyer to tell them what they want an then Women want to try to change a Man all the time. It all started with that Apple back in the day when Adam an eve was around if Man wouldn't of listen to a Women an bit that Apple we all wouldn't of been here so Men just got to grow up an be Men not Boy's. God Bless
Imma be honest with you. Some just say that to get sex. Others want a serious and loving relationship so they say that and don't follow through because maybe "you're not the kind of girl" that he's looking for.
Little boy's make promises to get in the panties. A man would make those promises to keep her. He will not do it right away. He would do it slowly. To see if she would keep up her end.
Either they are trying to score booty points or they truly do want to give you the moon and the stars it's just sometimes no matter how hard we try it just doesn't seem to work out so instead of putting us down and criticizing us for not giving you everything be appreciative of what we have and possibly will if u let us know ur thankful and that u love that we make. An effort everyday to try and give you what we feel u deserve the moon and the stars.
Because we’re promising to much we do our best but we fail a lot, as long as we’re loyal hard working and try to let our ladies live a good life we’ve done our job
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