He has to be a member of the landed gentry who owns enough land and properties to not work and live a lavish lifestyle on his income.
Just kidding.
It's the little things that count. I would say respect, for yourself and others, and also, old manners. For example, giving up a seat on a crowded train for a pregnant woman or elderly man or woman and offering people help when they're having difficulties. Also, discerning judgement, being polite, but also being firm when something is not right, not a pushover.
Being a gentleman is the best option. I get to have my heavy suitcase carried, and my boyfriend get's to show off his muscles and say 'it weighs nothing to me' yeah yeah, sure okay. <3
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Being respectful and courteous to all people, all ages, and not just women.
(This is also very hot, by the way.)
Hey you cut your hair! Finally made a decision eh? Looks good. Very snazzy. How do you like it? Big change, right?
Salons finally open now which is nice. I was one of my girl’s first clients. I did not enjoy us all wearing masks the whole time though.
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I'm very old-school. So when I think of a gentleman I think of someone who opens doors for the lady and treats her to a nice dinner and is respectful towards her and others. Makes her feel appreciated and loved. Also meets her at the door and knocks and doesn't sit in the car and honk. 😑
-Hardly cusses around me
-Respects his parents even if they have underlying issues
-Helps someone in need (gives a $1 to a homeless person, helps a random kid tie their shoes, holds the door for an elderly)
- When he steps up for others and doesn't allow someone to disrespect him or themWhen he treats you like he would his mother or sister, with care and respect.
It’s nice if he also looks out for you, or helps you with something without making us feel like a ‘helpless female’.To pick me up (in a car, or walking whatever) and bring me home. To offer to pay dinner. Who invites you on a proper date with a meal, instead of just some drinks or netflix and chill.
If he is able to accept different types of obligations whether its protecting somebody showing sympathy being cautious about making errors at work or helping a person lift things
Respect.
Chivalry.
Kind towards me and others.
Don’t pressure me but just wants me to be comfortable.
Charming.How he treats the waitress while out on a date... good indicator👌
And how he talks with me and how he messages too.when they escort u through doors and through public spaces with their hand on your back just above your hips. its feels protecctive but not controling.
Tipping well and treating everybody they come across with respect
in my opinion a gentlemen pays for the dinner and such , helps the woman on and off with her coat , helps her with the door she is going in and out of ! helps her with her chair she is sitting in and so forth ! thanks
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