There is this guy that I was very interested in him, and he was different to me than to other girls, she paid more attention to me and treated me with much more respect and care, he left behind any pther attractive girl to pat attention to me. We were just friends that liked each other, but even when he knew I liked him, he did not ask me out or anything. One day, I just realized that was bullishit. I mean, I started ti feel that he was like “saving me for later” because even when he was like hypnotized when being with me, he never asked me to be a friend with benefits or so. And he acted jealous of me, he followed me if he saw me with other guy... but I realized he was emotionally unavailable, he did not want a relationship in that moment so I moved on. I deleted him from social media. But We have some mutual friends and they told me he was changing for me, and that now he is thinking about having a relationship because he did not like the idea of losing me. I think they might be right. I mean, I was very cool, kind of flirty and never judged him even when he was really nervous to talk to me, so I suppose he feels weird to think of never having me around. But I don’t want someone that only appreciates my absence you know? What do you think?
Should I accept back the low effort guy?
