What should I do if I hooked up with my crushes friend and then found out that he did like me after all?

[Anonymous]

I have really liked this guy at my job for two months. I was always giving him flirty eyes and even though I felt like he was interested, he never made any moves at all. Eventually I gave up. His friend and I started talking, got drunk one night and ended up having sex. It was a mistake and I regretted it instantly.

It did not work out with the friend. One of my friends knew that I liked my crush and told him. He said I would have talked to her, but she talked to one of my friends. As the next two months went by, it seems like he was starting to warm back up to me again. He did a lot a little things to get my attention and put himself around me.

I gave him my number before I left the job. I had it in my number and told him you should call me or text me sometime. He said he would. We chatted for a few more minutes and then I left. It’s been a week and he has not called or texted.

I can’t help but regret the way things played out. I like him so much and I never like anybody. Any thoughts?

[SueShe]

Forget this guy because it is not leading anywhere. Now that you have left the job, you don't get to see the guy as often anymore and if he failed to contact you while you were close to him, the chance for him to ring you up is very slim.

Also, and without intent to insult you, if I were the crush and would know that you sleep around with guys when you are intoxicated, it would not make me want to contact you at all.

It is best to just look for someone that pays attention to you and where you don't have to do guesswork.

[Asker]

I appreciate the feedback. However, if I was the crush I would’ve made a move before two months anyway. If you don’t make a move, how can you expect the other person will eventually hook up with someone else.

[SueShe]

Some people don't dare to ask because of a number of reasons, one being shyness.

However, if you were really interested in this guy, you would probably have made the first step yourself unless of course, you are also that shy. But I don't think that you are the shy type of person that does not exteriorize herself.

[Cryptic-Game]

No idea. If he likes you, then he likely would brag.

[breuzanae]

Date him

[Lovegirls44]

Hello

[breuzanae]

Hi hi

[Lovegirls44]

Are you still there

[breuzanae]

Hi I am

[Lovegirls44]

. I wanna text you.

[breuzanae]

Ok how can you?

[Lovegirls44]

I can't.. I just joined.. when you ate getting xper 2

[breuzanae]

Oh I c. Yes it won’t let me.

[Lovegirls44]

Yeah..

[breuzanae]

Hehe next time.

[Lovegirls44]

You know where m i from

[breuzanae]

No I don’t c urr profile. Where might that be?

[Lovegirls44]

India

[breuzanae]

😬😬 I don’t like Indians!!

[breuzanae]

Stinks

[Lovegirls44]

Hmmmmm..

[breuzanae]

I don’t mean to offend anyone.

[Lovegirls44]

I m not offended. I smell good

[breuzanae]

Hehe

[Lovegirls44]

So will you text me

[breuzanae]

My level won’t allow private.

[Lovegirls44]

Oh... yeah. 😓

[breuzanae]

Why are you sweating?

[Lovegirls44]

Does it smell bad?

[breuzanae]

😬😬

[Lovegirls44]

🤔🤔

[Iron_Man]

Bad move Just to get his attention

[Asker]

What do you mean bad move to get his attention? I didn’t know he liked me And if I didn’t give him my number before I left there would be no chance. So I’m just confused what you mean when you say bad move to get his attention.