If you have been together for 9 years as you state and if you had intimate relations, then he is bisexual at best and not fully homosexual.
A homosexual person would never have intercourse with a person of the opposite gender. He is probably more homosexual than bisexual (perhaps 60/40) but still, that does put you in a dire situation.
If you cannot accept that he is bisexual and I fully understand you, then the best thing to do, for your sake and peace of mind, is to sever this relation because on the long run, you are only harming your sanity and possibly your health. STD/STI is much more likely to be spread among homosexuals that fail to protect themselves correctly.
It is not too late to restart anew with someone that sees cherishes you and not just misuses you. It will hurt a while but you can only profit from having a clear mind.
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he is not experimenting on behalf of your heart, but he's walking on your heart...
and you can't make a gay person straight any more than you can make a straight person gay... BUT, everyone has a bit of bisexuality in them, and its only a matter of time/age as to when its noticed.
if you can't accept his ways or join him, then the writing is on the wall... and it says "you and him are far from a compatible couple"...
Lol... Your description seems like it has nothing to do with the question.
Messing around with the backdoor can feel nice, though I prefer not to because poop is gross.
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You didn't say if the friend that gave him head in Florida was male or female?
I think it’s only a fetish. Vaginas are always better.
so he fucked you and then got head from another girl and you think he's gay? lol.
I didn't read anything in here that is a red flag. Just b/c he has an itchy butt and is nice to gay guys you think he's gay lol. That's pretty funny.
... Are you an idiot?
I really enjoy it. Feels great and major turn on
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If you think he’s gay end it
I think about half of men glorify the female butt.
Its a no from me
He could be bi
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