Butt stuff.. just how many of the straight guys actually like it?

[Anonymous]

I've really wondered for so long if my boyfriend is gay. He is just a preppy dude, with long hair, a chef, wise only slept with 3 girls. That makes me happy but I found out he cheated, my friend gave him head while I was in Florida for three days. Three years later I found out. Only now he is in jail, he once said he wasn't worried at all about going to prison he seemed excited, he has yet to be sentenced, but he just does things, does things to get him noticed or perceived as pretty I feel but towards guys.. And tried to like out pretty the girls but with ego. He is really nice to gay guys, but not like to the gay point that I've seen and I WATCH. I'm so scared of it even being a possibility the thought makes me sick so so sick. he treats me lovely and like a boyfriend should he's my high school sweet heart 9 years with him but he just DOES and SAYS off putting things wayyy before these jail days... So any way I found this out about the head thing, I hung up on him, he hasn't called in three days and canceled our visit, I feel like he's taking it easy way too easy. Like setting me aside like that was the best possible route and showing anyone inside with him he might like, that he doesn't really like me or proving he's not into girls, this is alll from 9 years of collected notes though guys, we were perfect before hand but like what if he is gay? What if he has someone in there taking my spot in such a disgusting way I'm starting to look back on all the times with his friends as if those were of the same situation... I'll answer any questions am I just freaking out of is he DL gay? Also whenever he sleeps I always have to yell at him for like playing or itching his ass under his clothes. Like fr, and one time he told me a guy offered to suck his dick then pay him for it. Then went l missing for two days, please help me this isn't just random, I feel like he's experimenting on behalf of my heart

[SueShe]

If you have been together for 9 years as you state and if you had intimate relations, then he is bisexual at best and not fully homosexual.

A homosexual person would never have intercourse with a person of the opposite gender. He is probably more homosexual than bisexual (perhaps 60/40) but still, that does put you in a dire situation.

If you cannot accept that he is bisexual and I fully understand you, then the best thing to do, for your sake and peace of mind, is to sever this relation because on the long run, you are only harming your sanity and possibly your health. STD/STI is much more likely to be spread among homosexuals that fail to protect themselves correctly.

It is not too late to restart anew with someone that sees cherishes you and not just misuses you. It will hurt a while but you can only profit from having a clear mind.

[centerline]

he is not experimenting on behalf of your heart, but he's walking on your heart...

and you can't make a gay person straight any more than you can make a straight person gay... BUT, everyone has a bit of bisexuality in them, and its only a matter of time/age as to when its noticed.
if you can't accept his ways or join him, then the writing is on the wall... and it says "you and him are far from a compatible couple"...

[Celtero]

Lol... Your description seems like it has nothing to do with the question.

Messing around with the backdoor can feel nice, though I prefer not to because poop is gross.

[spartan55]

You didn't say if the friend that gave him head in Florida was male or female?

[Anonymous]

I didn't read anything in here that is a red flag. Just b/c he has an itchy butt and is nice to gay guys you think he's gay lol. That's pretty funny.

[OddBeMe]

I think it’s only a fetish. Vaginas are always better.

[joeldalton]

so he fucked you and then got head from another girl and you think he's gay? lol.

[Thatsamazing]

... Are you an idiot?

[Chan7654]

I really enjoy it. Feels great and major turn on

[Iron_Man]

If you think he’s gay end it

[Cryptic-Game]

I think about half of men glorify the female butt.

[OlderThanILook]

Its a no from me

[Anonymous]

He could be bi

[Talksik6]

I love it