Bachelorette party - should I be worried?

[Anonymous]

Ladies; My girlfriend is organizing a bachelorette party for next weekend. She is hiring a stripper for the party. I told her it`s OK. She can be a little wild especially with her friends. Should I be worried? What goes on at these parties? Can`t help being a little nervous but I do not want to seem like I do not trust her.

[Brando]

Some women are wild and crazy, some are not. Some women are wild and crazier when drunk, some are not. You know who you picked to marry (or at least you should). If she cares, then she most likely won't do anything.

I'm only saying this because I've heard mixed stories which I have no clue if they're true or not, I've never bothered to find out. I've heard of perfectly normal and loyal women getting a few too many drinks in them and groping (or more) the stripper. But I've heard just as many stories of women who will sit and do nothing while the stripper dances in front of her.

If you're that concerned, then just have a talk with her and say that you're uncomfortable with the stripper and ask what she thinks about it all.

[HomoErectus]

lol dude if you agreed you should trust.

i mean, you guys are getting married, eventually you will find out she cheated or not, maybe you don't even need to worry about that, with time you will be the only one right? and the percentage will work on your side. say she f***s him once and within a year you'll be on f*** number 365... that's good.

xD

just have your own bachelor party and do the very same.

[notsosimple19]

It's normal to be nervous, all that does is show that you care about her, and that you want her all to yourself! I think strippers are overrated...chances are her girlfriends will get more out of it than she will. Hand her the reins, and trust her with them. If she's marrying you, she loves you. Don't be worried. :)

[Asker]

She is not the lady getting married...just the MOH. I want to be cool about this...hell I have been to a few strip clubs myself so I do not want to be a hypocrite.

[notsosimple19]

Oh geez. Sorry then, I shouldn't have jumped to conclusions...

I still think that it holds to, though. Plus, the fact that you're being so level-headed about it will make her feel more comfortable, and she'll look forward to spending time with you afterward, knowing that you're cool with it. :)

[Asker]

Yea I think it will be steady as it goes. I guess in case of the worst case senario what I don`t know won`t kill me LOL Thanks for the reasonable answer.

[kikilove]

Don't stress out, it's not a big deal. Generally, male strippers are more humorous than they are sexy to women. I've been to parties with male strippers and trust me, the atmosphere is anything but sexual.

[udolipixie]

Just imagine what you'd want to do as your last night of freedom before sleeping with the same person for a lifetime.

[SeanSilk]

Quote: "This is what worries me. She can get pretty crazy when she is a little drunk and with her friends."

In response to that, why would you want to marry a woman who gets crazy after she gets drunk? I sure wouldn't. What is her background? How many boyfriends and/or husbands did she have? Has she cheated on any of them? Did she ever cheat on you?

[Shaun]

Sucking and f***ing. And the bride to be gets special treatment. You may as well get yourself a high priced hooker or two and have at it, because she's going to.

[Asker]

Just so you know my Girlfriend is not the lady getting married, she is the maid of honor and she is organizing the party.

[Shaun]

She'll probably just be doing some sucking, then.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Google "dancing bear", that's all the information you need.

[TheWhiteFreshPrince]

That depends on what your girl is like...

[Asker]

This is what worries me. She can get pretty crazy when she is a little drunk and with her friends.

[TheWhiteFreshPrince]

Lol well I don't know what to tell you haha...just try and not worry about it too much as long as you feel that she will be a faithfull wifey.

[Anonymous]

What fresh prince said.