Is checking out other women normal guy behavior or the behavior of a cheater? (Page 4)
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I think intention of checking out is more important that act itself. Men are visual so its bound to happen like it or not. If you get jelous just because of it you two have a lot bigger problem sthat checking someone out. If you two can talk about it, like deam did you saw how grat she looked, yee her dress really fit her well, or diod you saw his arms, yee, his ass was nice to. You have normal healty relationships where you can talk about stuff.
It's normal. It's in our DNA. Millions of years of evolution. When I was walking around with my girl, and saw a hot woman, it took every ounce of effort I could muster not to look. It got so bad sometimes I broke out in a sweat!
I believe when you are truly in love you barely notice members of the opposite sex exceptmfornyoue significant other
It’s only disrespectful if he says something to her like “ you’re sexy” or “I wanna smash you” the amount of guys who have messaged me who have been married or in long term relationships 😮 some do it because they are bored with their current partner
Its normal.
I mean like damn, if i see a hot girl im going to look too!
It's normal people behavior. Women check out men, men check out women. I can't even imagine being so insecure that I'd have a problem with my partner checking out other men. And if I was, I'd get myself help.
The only 2 times my guy has caught me checking out other men were
1. The guy was jogging and he was well-built but his pecs were bouncing and my 5 yr old acting self just LOST it and couldnt stop giggling/laughing
2. It was today actually, an absolutely hulk of a man, like biceps bigger than my head, also jogging. He commented that the guy was too big, I just called him beefy.
I think it would be weird to be seriously checking out and oogling at other people with sexual intentions when your partner is right there or you do have a serious partner
@authoroftheuniverse I'd find it weird if my partner was trying to hide it. What a shit relationship it would be if we couldn't be open to each other about this stuff. Me and my partner usually check out other people together, sometimes I'd be like "woah, check out that woman's amazing ass" or she'd be like "that man has gorgeous forearms" or whatever and we'd comment on it together.
I genuinely pity anyone who can't be like that with their partner and instead feel the need to hide it from each other. It sounds extremely immature and unhealthy to me. But oh well, not my problem! lol
I had to learn the hard way that a man is going to look, regardless of his age or relationship status. It's just their nature. (No offense, guys)
It's cheating when they physically act on it.
Normal. Guys are visual and they like to look it's harmless
It's normalised in society but it is a disloyal trait
It isn't indicative of a cheater. People check out other people all the time- we are hardwired for it.
i don't know. i don't think i'm normal but i'm not a cheater. i'd check that ass out if it was that good
Let's not be hypocrite. Even women look while in a relationship.
You are right while watching the Twilight movie all girls tough Taylor Lautner was sexy and we were in a relationship so yes you are right.
All guys look. ALL guys. Now he should at least TRY to be discreet about it. That's just good manners. But yeah--if a girl has a great ass or spectacular tits--we're GOING to look. That has nothing to do with cheating by the way.
In the words of Foxworthy "You can move your eyes, just don't turn your head."
Many guys are cheats with that, pervs too. And act on it. Idiots.
Oh don't act like many girls don't cheat because they also do. When a guy take her girlfriend to a shopping mall, doesn't automatically mean she's an gold digger looking for a richer guy?
@Aiko_E_Lara I tend to talk wit other guys, text them too. I do it in a different way so yeah, cheater.
Anecdotes don't prove anything
@Aiko_E_Lara hahaha I am a master so with me it is ok
Then this made me question if you deserved that.
@Aiko_E_Lara hahaha Best one on here who is the wisest.
Hurry now, @aiko_e_lara I see u are guru u can catch up to me. hahaha
Xper here don't mean shit. A 5 year old can understand that. It's sad you think life is about Xper
That is sick behavior! Make up your mind! Do you really love her then god dam it show it!
You're an idiot.
Yes, you would. As would literally everyone else. That's just basic biology. You will look at physically attractive people. Your eyes can't help but shift that way.
Actually i check out every girl that comes by even if i was in a relationship. I know my exes did the same thing. Its when you cross the line that is bad. Looking is not cheating.
He's a disgusting cheater who can't keep his eyes and hands on one woman
This is normal behavior. Who doesn't check out the others? Crazy people?