Because its not fair than men need to be the ones approaching, is not fair than women have on average suitors and matches in tinder, men approaching, but men on average have zero female attention and need to be the ones who approach... im not going to say its OK, but the women's answers in this post are disgusting, i wonder if the chicks here where males and be the ones who need to do the approach
Some women play the "hard to get" or "try harder" game. So guys assume they have to do better. I always tell my friends to just find a better girl since there are so many
Nobody likes rejection, and we live in a world where the chase has been encouraged - whether playing hard to get, or shit testing.
The flip side of your question words too. Why can’t women handle rejection? If you say no, they try to push themselves on you anyway, call you gay, as if you’re impotent, and eventually have their posse call you an asshole for rejecting her.
Depends on the case, but how someone responds to getting rejected all depends on his mindset and her behavior, since there are a lot of people that do play games.
Well I have 5 sisters and what I have learned is that the approach of a man is what a woman looks at. And if you are tacky with your approach you have to handle the response from the lady. Most real men know that. The want to be men don't know that.
How about you go try approach total strangers in hopes they might end up interest in you and tell me how being rejected 7 times out of 10 makes you feel.
@Juxtapose very true but I think it depends on the guy and his ego. I have one guy here who I rejected politely (I said “ you’re a nice guy, but you’re not my type) who keeps trying even after I had to bluntly tell him “sorry I’m not interested in fucking you.”
That just means you’re a smart guy who knows when to stop trying. I’ve said no to him several times from telling him he’s not my type to telling him I’m not attracted to him to basically telling him to leave me alone. I usually prefer to be nice when rejecting men and that’s what I was trying to be at first but I think with him it’s more of an ego thing because I heard from a couple of friends of mine that he doesn’t get rejected often. Also I once watched him have an emotional melt down over some random guy telling him he looked 58 when he’s the same age as me.
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Some people can't take no for an answer no matter how many times a woman says no
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Because its not fair than men need to be the ones approaching, is not fair than women have on average suitors and matches in tinder, men approaching, but men on average have zero female attention and need to be the ones who approach... im not going to say its OK, but the women's answers in this post are disgusting, i wonder if the chicks here where males and be the ones who need to do the approach
Society teaches us that being rejected by a woman is a fate worse than death , if a woman is rejects you , your not worth as a man
basically toxic masculinity in a nutshell
also society tells women to play hard to get and not give a direct answer
i saw a question in different sites where a woman asked why can't men understand no means try harder ( i'm not joking )
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Some women play the "hard to get" or "try harder" game. So guys assume they have to do better. I always tell my friends to just find a better girl since there are so many
Men can handle rejection its the boys that have a problem with it. If you know what I mean
Yes I agree
Men fall in love faster and harder than women, it also takes them longer to get over it and move on.
Men are far more emotional than women give them credit for.
Unless the guy talk to many different girls they don’t get attached that easily
Nobody likes rejection, and we live in a world where the chase has been encouraged - whether playing hard to get, or shit testing.
The flip side of your question words too. Why can’t women handle rejection? If you say no, they try to push themselves on you anyway, call you gay, as if you’re impotent, and eventually have their posse call you an asshole for rejecting her.
Depends on the case, but how someone responds to getting rejected all depends on his mindset and her behavior, since there are a lot of people that do play games.
Uhhhhhhhhh which sex has to put itself out there and risk rejection like 90%+ of the time again?
Girls are probably the same in situations like these, it’s easily done. Rejection will never be easy to deal with.
sad thing is the person who rejecting will never see that
Well I have 5 sisters and what I have learned is that the approach of a man is what a woman looks at. And if you are tacky with your approach you have to handle the response from the lady. Most real men know that. The want to be men don't know that.
If they don't realize that they were rejected then how can you make that statement?
To judge a person on how they handle rejection it has to be clear that they were rejected and then observe how they react
How about you go try approach total strangers in hopes they might end up interest in you and tell me how being rejected 7 times out of 10 makes you feel.
Which men? I just move on if she is not interested.
You should try it with women, they can't handle rejection they don't even try.
My best guess is it could be the ones that don't take it well feel they're entitled somehow.
Because so many men base their self-worth on their dating/sex life.
Maybe if women were *direct* we wouldn't have to guess :/
Same for men who are not genuine
Eh, my gender is known as the straightforward and direct gender for a reason.
@Juxtapose very true but I think it depends on the guy and his ego. I have one guy here who I rejected politely (I said “ you’re a nice guy, but you’re not my type) who keeps trying even after I had to bluntly tell him “sorry I’m not interested in fucking you.”
@silvermoon84 It only takes one CLEAR "no" for me.
I immediately lose all attraction for someone who rejects me because nothing is less sexy than not being desired.
That just means you’re a smart guy who knows when to stop trying. I’ve said no to him several times from telling him he’s not my type to telling him I’m not attracted to him to basically telling him to leave me alone. I usually prefer to be nice when rejecting men and that’s what I was trying to be at first but I think with him it’s more of an ego thing because I heard from a couple of friends of mine that he doesn’t get rejected often. Also I once watched him have an emotional melt down over some random guy telling him he looked 58 when he’s the same age as me.
@silvermoon84 Gross lol, he sounds like a narc.
Uh... we don't assume that she's playing hard to get. We just get frustrated. It's not complicated, really.