Yeah that is kinda true ^^ We do try and push bak against it but it's hard. ontrolling men brings a lot of power so there's a lot of men and women who try to do it and shaming is one of the easiest ways to try and get there. Giving a guy purpose and building him up is a much more effective way in my opinion but a lot of people can't be bothered.
I feel like they are partly responsible for the teen-agers who run off and join ISIS or other extremists. It's not that they're extremists themselves it's that they're the only ones who aknowledge them and that's a pretty sad reality.
Some man are into themselves, and don't pay much attention to their actions of what they say and do. Don't think on little things, not patience enough.
One girl is never enough. The amount of guys that have been either married or in a relationship try to sext me and sleep with me. It’s like brooo you’ve got a girlfriend 😮 now I’m scared to get into a relationship just in case my man cheats on me
Girls do that too. I've had girls with boyfriends try to get with me (never someone who's married tho). The most recent and worst one yet was this girl who has a boyfriend, lives with him and has a child with him
I am assuming it may have to do with gender norms, depends. Females are taught to be femininity, while males are taught to be tough and masculine; however, recent times have shown that it is more acceptable to get out of the gender basis to be more in tune with traits that may not be in old fashion standards. Nonetheless, that is only my opinion on the matter.
Problem with men today is they have no purpose and act soppy and weak crying about this or that and putting woman on a pedestal instead off taking charge off their own lives
see everyone? note the pre packaged response in order to shut down and avoid all conversation and criticism; this person is broken do no take advice or experience from her
Emotionally weak and insecure! A weak man will defend himself and blame his girlfriend. He will also think that the world owes him something.
A weak man, claims to be tough but are nowhere near that. They are, Cheaters who play mind games? They don’t have the decency to choose for real, but don’t leave your life either.
A weak man is actually not brave enough to make a decision and stick with it. He doesn’t have the strength to go after what he wants and deal with the consequences of his actions.
In fact, deep down, this guy is aware that he doesn’t have the capacity to make the right choices.
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From a male's perspective, in America, or the West at large, men have lost their balls. They let women take control of everything.
Women are difficult to please, really.
Thats a tough question. To me, I guess the biggest issue is that men have been conditioned to be afraid to be themselves.
In what ways do you mean that?
@Lynx122 my observation is that men get shamed for being men.
Yeah that is kinda true ^^ We do try and push bak against it but it's hard. ontrolling men brings a lot of power so there's a lot of men and women who try to do it and shaming is one of the easiest ways to try and get there. Giving a guy purpose and building him up is a much more effective way in my opinion but a lot of people can't be bothered.
I feel like they are partly responsible for the teen-agers who run off and join ISIS or other extremists. It's not that they're extremists themselves it's that they're the only ones who aknowledge them and that's a pretty sad reality.
Maybe I should write a mytake about this ^^
@Lynx122 good idea.
Some man are into themselves, and don't pay much attention to their actions of what they say and do. Don't think on little things, not patience enough.
One girl is never enough. The amount of guys that have been either married or in a relationship try to sext me and sleep with me. It’s like brooo you’ve got a girlfriend 😮 now I’m scared to get into a relationship just in case my man cheats on me
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same thing whit you girls
Hey I'm polyamorous what am I supposed to do?
Girls do that too. I've had girls with boyfriends try to get with me (never someone who's married tho). The most recent and worst one yet was this girl who has a boyfriend, lives with him and has a child with him
I think cause they get bored
Yeah that's because forever-sexual-monogamy is stupid.
@Posterboy56 it’s worked out for me.
@Jersey2 That's nice.
They are not doing anything about the system... At least they should become nomadic, it's too much to be here,
They accept the lofty expectations that women expect from them and not themselves, instead of maintaining dignity and telling them no.
Damn true that bro!
Simply put most (not all) men want to be the alpha at all time; usually overdoing in the process.
True that. This alpha/beta concept is BS to begin with. Now why would anyone waste their time on that.
I am assuming it may have to do with gender norms, depends. Females are taught to be femininity, while males are taught to be tough and masculine; however, recent times have shown that it is more acceptable to get out of the gender basis to be more in tune with traits that may not be in old fashion standards. Nonetheless, that is only my opinion on the matter.
Problem with men today is they have no purpose and act soppy and weak crying about this or that and putting woman on a pedestal instead off taking charge off their own lives
Reading what the women have to say should be interesting
Indeed. I have learned quite some things already. Glad I asked.
In my experience, the biggest issue women have with men today is the fact that men are so dissatisfied with and critical of what women have become.
No communication and if we give you the same medicine they can’t handle it
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same for you girls. My girl us to stay silance and let me get nervos because of that, afther i did the same to her she cry afther a couple of minutes
@Alexandrubaschet08 We do it not to be nagging you anymore. y'all do it to be petty against us
If you're not from a Disney Prince who can read minds, 99% are never going to be satisfied.
*not a
My only problem is they're not asking me out to dinner! I don't want to "come chill"
lol when I say do you want to chill that means I’ll buy dinner, I guess I should change my words
YES please do!
Low interest. Will take you on a date and be all excited etc. Then nothing.
Well then you need to work on your dating skills.
Whose shorts are shorter the dudes shorts or the girls shorts? lol
Their envy of women gets the best of them.
men don't envy women, only a femnazi trying to avoid self criticism would think this
Sure, Jan.
see everyone? note the pre packaged response in order to shut down and avoid all conversation and criticism; this person is broken do no take advice or experience from her
Get over it.
Men like you would never admit your vagina envy. You’ll just lash out like you always do.
you responded twice because i hit a nerve, i look down on you =)
No you don’t. You couldn’t come close enough me, homie.
Lol k
Clearly didn't envy you enough at 36 to get married with you.
I’ve been married for over a decade.
If you were married for a decade you'd know men don't envy women.
@Daniel3035 yea i don't think she's married, maybe to a woman?
Not every man. But many have told me they do.
not a single man has told you that unless he's gay, or has serious mental disorders. the only kind of guys you hang around
That is not the case.
@007kingifrit Yup probably the best it gets really if not a woman then probably some cats.
Now this man was he drunk?
You guys are silly lmfao 😜
Most of them are fuckboys
Women are the problem with men today.
They lie. No job. Small penis. Broke. weak.
Size doesn't matter? 🧐
Truth from women comes out in funny ways
Size does matter.
What does the weak part mean
Emotionally weak and insecure! A weak man will defend himself and blame his girlfriend. He will also think that the world owes him something.
A weak man, claims to be tough but are nowhere near that. They are, Cheaters who play mind games? They don’t have the decency to choose for real, but don’t leave your life either.
A weak man is actually not brave enough to make a decision and stick with it. He doesn’t have the strength to go after what he wants and deal with the consequences of his actions.
In fact, deep down, this guy is aware that he doesn’t have the capacity to make the right choices.
Promiscuity and being spineless, weak.