HELP!! Does he like me or does he think I like him?

[Brooke90]

I met this guy we would say hey in passing that was all, now after few weeks we chat when we see each other. We chatted one day & then couple days later he sent me friend request. Next time i seen him we chatted & i caught him looking at me as i walked past, later on he was walking past & he looked at me & smiled. Then i was at party & he was not there but his friend was i have never met this friend before. He came over told me he was his friend & said the guy had asked him to ask me for a favour. I dont understand why he would not contact me himself to ask for favour why get his friend to ask. Honestly the friend could have done the favour for him, the friend told me he told him he would do it & not ask me & guy told him no ask her to do it for me. I did favour & he text me to say thanks. I do not understand is he intrested in me or wants to be friends. Do you think he likes me more than friend? I am not sure what to do

[CoolGuyJoe]

It sounds like you want to put an end to the uncertainty in the air that surrounds you and him. Since you're getting mixed messages, and the guy isn't taking initiative, you're left with the question "Do I like him?" It sounds like your answer is no.

In order to put an end to the situation, you may have to start ignoring him. Give him less energy. When he sees the change from you, it will cause him to either stop or do something new. When he does the new thing (which is a direct interaction with you) you now have the opportunity to clear the air by rejecting his advances.

[virtue2332]

Look he is probably thinking the same thing about you. If you like him you should flirt with him more. Like he probably knew he was being obvious when he was checking you out but didn't get the go ahead signal he was looking for to pursue you. You could have asked him what he was looking at in a flirting way. It might have given him the chance to say something back that showed where his interest was. If you want to save time just ask him chances are he is into you. Guys usually don't act that way unless they are interested. Even if its friends he's probably ok but hoping there is more.

[DannyUk2017]

He likes you more than just friends... maybe he is Shy, unsecure, emotionaly unstable!

[Yuuibtony]

Don't waste time, and go out and date

[In_Trance]

Ask him

[Anonymous]

He might be shy