What does it mean when a guy calls you sexy sexy?

[Anonymous]

Just met a guy online dating site I joined he asked for a picture of me and sent him a picture of me he said the first picture I sent that I looked "Amazing" After he saw my 1st picture he asked for another one and that's when he said "baby you look sexy sexy" we texted each other for a while last night and he started calling me baby after he saw what I looked like. He seems like a nice guy. He also sent me a picture of him and I think he really hot I am looking for more than a good time-what do you think in reference to his response to my photos. He also is a single father with 2 kids that live with him. Does it sound like he's a player just looking for a good time or sincere guy looking for Mrs right.

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By the way he is in his 30s and I am in my 40s.

[Tamikaze]

His responses are the type that are not about a guy trying to date you, but definitely more the type of a guy who wants a casual sexual deal. Think about it, he doesn't know you, you haven't met, and he is already calling you baby?

A lot of guys go online looking for a fling, not love. Many will be straight about this, some will be more subtle. I found a lot of divorced men who also had kids, just were not up to finding a new relationship. They were looking for sex. It would be hard for me to get past the whole "baby" thing but if you really want to give this a chance, well keep talking to him, and a guy who just wants sex will only really talk about that. He will call you baby, sexy, and start talking to you in a sexual manner as far as he can push it. He won't spend much time asking you about your life or your interests. If somehow you guys get to the point of dating, be aware of whether he takes you on a nice date or just tries to buy you a drink and have you end up at his place or yours.

Good luck!

[Asker]

thank you for your advice I will take it slow and by the way I had long day at work the day we spoke and he did apologize for being rude and not asking how my day went and he also told me a little bit about his sons so maybe there a chance somewhere in the mix of things-i thank you so much for your advice it really helped.

[Tamikaze]

I would definitely discourage him from calling you baby. That is just not cool.

[standUP]

come on now your how old asking this high school question? ask your daughter she would know that as well? lol

somebody has a puuppy love crush aww how cute...lol

[Anonymous]

sounds like a player. I would be offended if someone I wasn't in a relationship with called me baby.

[yewieman]

Even if it would be Justin Bieber ? :p

[artimis]

hahah, it was a funny one :)))

[planetearth]

He wants sex with an older woman. This is clear.