I need unbiased thoughts from strangers. My boyfriend gets mad and threatens to break up with me if I do not send him nudes?

[Anonymous]

Please give me your unbiased opinion on this. My boyfriend of 7 months and I have gotten into fights before because he would continuously ask me for nudes even after I tell him no and then he gets mad and threatens to break up with me over it because he says his "needs are not being met" even though we have sex pretty much everyday. He also said "if you don't ever plan on sending me nudes and it's something that I want, this can't work out."

[Andres77]

1. If you're not married I'd always recommend against sending nudes.
There's no guarantee that he will not be doing something inappropriate with your naked pics.
2. Any man that ever threatens or manipulates you because you don't simply comply with his demands is a bully and an asshole and he doesn't love you. He loves himself and he wants you... big difference.
Don't give in.
Tell him to stop demanding nudes.
If he doesn't then just drop him.

Don't say "if you don't stop demanding nudes I'll dump you." Then it's conditional and he didn't consider your feelings before being threatened with losing you.
Tell him "don't ask me one more time for another nude. I'm not comfortable with it and I don't want to."
If he threatens or bullies you... dump him then. He had his choice to be considerate, he chose his own wants over your well being.
And when he says sorry I won't do it again... he's a lying fuck and if you take him back then you're a fool and you'll always regret it.

No man should demand anything, especially if it's through manipulation and anger.
Ever!

[Floppy2112]

Well, you are in a fucked up relationship. You need to dump him. If he insists on nudes and gets mad if you don't send them, he's a control freak. It already sounds like a messed up relationship. He's got to go. Take some pride and yourself and kick him to the curb, OR do exactly what he says all the time and just take that crap until you are so beaten down, you feel valueless.

[Anonymous]

Since he is willing to break up for such a thing, he's no good for you ( and as a side advice: never ever share your pics. You must heard what they do with them out there. Some guys just share pics of their girls with their friends or online with strangers, so you must know who you trust)

Break up with him, you can do better

[Daniela1982]

You have 4 choices - 1 - send him nudes, 2 - tell him to F O as he sees you in person -3 - send him nudes of your shaven dog's ass, 4 - Stop trolling.

[johnieohm2]

He is a manipulator that is only using you for sex, that is a very dry relationship and think about what you are willing to put up with. I am not being mean, I just know these tactics quite well and he can honestly wait or he can kick rocks. I would rather see you happy than to put yourself in a position to please someone else when they are not pleasing you.

[virgin20]

He sounds like a controlling piece of shit. Break up with his toxic ass, no girl should be pressured into sending nudes to anyone. It's their own choice.
Please break up

[spartan55]

Your boyfriend has zero respect for you, and he is STILL your boyfriend? AYFKM? What an absolute DICKHEAD. Call his stupid bluff and lose the loser.

[K-I-S-S]

He is not your boyfriend he is your regular abuser.

But... er.. could you show us the nudes he isn't getting? 💩

Just kidding, don't do it. I just like write weird stuff sometimes, it's a hobbie, doesn't help to pay my pills though.🙃

[Ghostloli]

Ditch him like now, straight away.

Sounds an utter dick and controlling, movin on a few months / years likely the type to beat you up.

You dumped him yet?

[Born-for-sex]

I would brake up with him then. He isn’t respecting you at all and he isn’t respecting your privacy. Sex isn’t about needs it is about giving to the person you care about. But and if all he can think about is his needs then you will never please him.

[jshm2]

He's trying to get more claims over you and will probably revenge porn you.

Best breakup with the geezer, he's not going to get better.

[AmandaYVR]

Dump this guy. There are far better men out there than this. This guy's a douche.

[AFellowWeeb]

Just dont. Nudes should never be exchanged, they are just worth for blackmail, because if you guys are already having sex, why would any of you need to have pictures of the other naked?

[ayomanwya]

Well let him break up with you then cause you really deserve a lot better. You should just break up with him actually. It really saddens me how some guys treat some girls

[douride2]

I would tell him to get going. You deserve a better class of man.

[Anonymous]

If you have to ask this question you might just be dumb enough to continue dating a pig

[JamesRandiDebates]

He ounds like a douchebag. Time to take your pussy and give it to another guy.

[Anonymous]

then dump him he's a piece of shit who doesn't respect you

[BillHe1]

It's time to find a new boyfriend.

[maryisbreathing]

That's messed up seriously

[recvcv]

leave him you can do better

[Anonymous]

Dump this manipulative little shit now.

[Wise4myage]

Do yourself a favor, and dump that chump.

[Pete671]

Nothing anybody says will make any difference,