If a guy left you on read does he want you to try and text him again?

[Anonymous]

The guy I’m dating and I had a miscommunication last Thursday. I tried calling him to communicate his phone went to voicemail. I text him saying I called. He responded to me yesterday saying he got caught up in work. Sorry he didn’t text back his phone was set up to go to voicemail. But he never heard anything from me after Thursday. I’m confused because I tried to call and text but didn’t hear anything so I just backed off. Well I went to his house last night he kicked me out early saying he has to go to work. He texted me when he got off. I told him that he is kind of up and down and has bad communication. He read the message. So now I don’t know?

[Anonymous]

Caught up in work from Thursday to Monday? No where in that time did he have a few minutes to reach out? Despite how much you like him let’s be real, that makes no sense. I get the notion that he’s not fully invested, and I don’t say that to discourage you, just an outside observation. Anyway, let him reach out to you, since he left you on read. Effort needs to be mutual.

[Asker]

Well he’s an audio engineer the schedule can be hectic.

[Opinion Owner]

Was he always that way though? Or did it just gradually become less talking?

[Asker]

I’m not sure. We haven’t been dating that long

[Opinion Owner]

I only ask because then you could compare his actions. Regardless, it’s hard to justify leaving you on read for 4 days, even with an intensive job it takes seconds.

[Changiis07]

He kicked you out early? Do you feel like he isn't as interested? have you slept with him already...

[Asker]

Never slept with him before. This was the first time we spent time alone since meeting. Yes I was only there for like 45 mins. He was on the phone most of the time working with producers for a job he’s doing. He text me after he made it back from the studio. But I’m not sure. I’m an audio engineer myself so I know how hectic work can get but his way of communicating make me wonder does he even like me. We haven’t really talked about sex.

[Changiis07]

Haven't slept with him period?
He sounds busy and only you know how he is. Sometimes some men aren't fully ready for a relationship since it does require time and all. Talk to him that way you know

[Asker]

No sex at all, no kissing nothing. I plan to talk to him but I’m not sure if I should reach out or let him reach out.

[Changiis07]

If he is interested he will reach out. I mean it goes both ways, you can't be doing all the work either

[Asker]

Exactly, it’s been two days since I last spoke to him. So we will see

[Changiis07]

Yeah that's too long for me. I need a daily text or call or something. That's not cool and no one is too busy

[user2345354]

If you want to text him again, then text him again. And just ask him, 'Hey, do you want me to stop texting you, Mr. Unresponsive? by the way are you gay or something?'

[Asker]

Lmao are you gay or anything.

[user2345354]

Or my personal favorite: "Since you don't like responding to my text messages, here's a 46 year old dick pic. Boo yah"

[user2345354]

What you're not going to reply to that?