I told my boyfriend about how my day was going at work and how bad it was (girl called off)
So I had to do her job and mine which are in 2 different parts of the kitchen, all he said was have fun with that I asked him why that was all he said and he said I don't know and I said okay well, Saying have fun with that if I was saying I'm cleaning cat puke at home yayyy
That's fine to say then
But when someone is telling you about their bad day at work they don't wanna hear that they wanna hear things like wow that persons a lazy **** for not coming in to work, wow you're so hard working, I know you're stressed about work but hang in there dont let it get to you, take a breather outside etc
All he said back was thats just how I talk, happy to be a piece of ****. So basically I took that as I don't care its how I talk I'm not changing it. Which makes me feel he doesn't care if it hurts me.
I don't understand why he can't just say I didn't mean it like that ill try to not say it if it hurts your feelings
I'm so confused what do you guys think?
Like shouldn't he just not say that though if I tell him it hurts my feelings? I really don't get why someone would wanna continue talking in a way that would hurt their parter all im asking him is to not talk like that when it comes to me telling him about my day. And it threw me off too and made me think he was short with me because he was upset. He's sensitive too and doesn't take criticism well so its like its okay when he's sensitive but not okay when I am. We both have depression and anxiety. If I said something a certain way that hurt his feelings I'd change it in a heartbeat so shouldn't he?
So I had to do her job and mine which are in 2 different parts of the kitchen, all he said was have fun with that I asked him why that was all he said and he said I don't know and I said okay well, Saying have fun with that if I was saying I'm cleaning cat puke at home yayyy
That's fine to say then
But when someone is telling you about their bad day at work they don't wanna hear that they wanna hear things like wow that persons a lazy **** for not coming in to work, wow you're so hard working, I know you're stressed about work but hang in there dont let it get to you, take a breather outside etc
All he said back was thats just how I talk, happy to be a piece of ****. So basically I took that as I don't care its how I talk I'm not changing it. Which makes me feel he doesn't care if it hurts me.
I don't understand why he can't just say I didn't mean it like that ill try to not say it if it hurts your feelings
I'm so confused what do you guys think?
Like shouldn't he just not say that though if I tell him it hurts my feelings? I really don't get why someone would wanna continue talking in a way that would hurt their parter all im asking him is to not talk like that when it comes to me telling him about my day. And it threw me off too and made me think he was short with me because he was upset. He's sensitive too and doesn't take criticism well so its like its okay when he's sensitive but not okay when I am. We both have depression and anxiety. If I said something a certain way that hurt his feelings I'd change it in a heartbeat so shouldn't he?
