Do you mean as opposed to just being honest about just wanting a hook up? If you could get a casual hook -up, why would you be a player and hurt people?
@malwins I wonder if they don't see themselves as players. I wonder if they just see themselves as bad at relationships having a string of short terms ones. After all, its easier just to use an app if you want to get laid. Knowingly playing people looks exhausting to me.
Because women play us. At a certain point you have wasted enough of our time that we don’t care about hurting you anymore. Frankly every instant of pain you feel from being played, you deserve to experience 10 times more.
I think more of boredom and lack of control, maturity for some. Now if its a teenager I say more of curiousity than lack of control. Older men are simply sad and desparate.
What if they are good looking and women like them. Thats not really an issue is it? Some though are insecure, some its a mommy or daddy issue. I'm sure the list goes on and on.
Varying factors... i. e. ... Biology, circumstance, learned mentality, looks/appeal, charisma or by choice. It could be many of these together or one factor specifically.
believe it or not... A woman can have a baby every 9-12 months... and that's a LOT... a guy can father a child every week with a different woman... why did God do this? Good Question
Some guys come into their own at a later age abs feel like they have to prove to themselves that they aren’t the same guy they used to be when they weren’t able to get girls. It’s an insecurity thing
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Sex that's why, sometimes a guy just wants sex and the meaning doesn't go any deeper than that.
That or/and maybe it's about fulfilling the ego.
Their highest life priority is to sleep with as many girls as possible.
Now a days I have seen it more in woman then in man. It can go both genders not just man.
They are like that because they have zero respect for women. They just use women to satisfy their own needs then move on to the next one.
Do you mean as opposed to just being honest about just wanting a hook up?
If you could get a casual hook -up, why would you be a player and hurt people?
lol exactly. word "player" suggests deceit
@malwins I wonder if they don't see themselves as players. I wonder if they just see themselves as bad at relationships having a string of short terms ones.
After all, its easier just to use an app if you want to get laid. Knowingly playing people looks exhausting to me.
Because women play us. At a certain point you have wasted enough of our time that we don’t care about hurting you anymore. Frankly every instant of pain you feel from being played, you deserve to experience 10 times more.
Insecurities, immaturity poor upbringing, unresolved trauma.
It falls under the broad umbrella of toxic masculinity. Insecurity, entitlement, a general lack of consideration of the interests of others.
I think more of boredom and lack of control, maturity for some. Now if its a teenager I say more of curiousity than lack of control. Older men are simply sad and desparate.
Because the woman let them behave like that. I think they truly like it. Maybe they get special things for allowing the dude to be that way.
What if they are good looking and women like them. Thats not really an issue is it? Some though are insecure, some its a mommy or daddy issue. I'm sure the list goes on and on.
Varying factors... i. e. ... Biology, circumstance, learned mentality, looks/appeal, charisma or by choice. It could be many of these together or one factor specifically.
believe it or not... A woman can have a baby every 9-12 months... and that's a LOT... a guy can father a child every week with a different woman... why did God do this? Good Question
Some guys come into their own at a later age abs feel like they have to prove to themselves that they aren’t the same guy they used to be when they weren’t able to get girls. It’s an insecurity thing
Because they like sex and have the skill to get it.
Not all people are into relationship.
And there are female equivalents of womanizers too
Why not? The way women treat men, what did you expect?
They really like sex that’s why. Like the unattainable.
Yes. To both insecurities and issues inside them, yes
possibly, I keep getting called a player but in the inside I feel like I’m not good enough for these women
I like to see it as if they have discovered a forbidden power that was found on their journey to get over their insecurities and now they abuse it.