I thought it was funny in my head and I felt bad because I just got ignored and the way that friend texts me is always very dry it just makes me feel bad I’ve known this person for years and I think it’s the only friend that I have. It just makes me feel bad that I always send him videos and his only responses are “k” and just very dry responses and then I sent something to be funny and I just got ignored. I don’t know if he’s my friend anymore. He’s told me that he’s a dry texter before but ignoring me? That’s weird
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I’ve tried to make friends with girls but it’s like everyone suffers from dryness lol and I always had to be the one that initiates texts
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Hey guys I’m thinking about making a bumble again for friends I think I really need to be friends with a girl
I sent this ugly face of me to be funny to my friend but he just ignores me did I do something wrong or was I weird?
First of all. That's not just funny in your head. It's funny! :)
Secondly. No you did not do anything wrong, nor were you being weird. I can guarantee you that your friend wasn't thinking that either.
What this sounds like is a combination of a couple of things that are working together. So it sounds like this friend of yours is just one of those guys who is a terrible texter. Some guys are like that. But it's them not knowing how to text. It doesn't mean that they aren't reacting/enjoying/laughing at whatever you say/send. They just... don't write about it. At all.
The only other possible explanation would be if you completely misinterpreted your entire friendship with this guy, and he's really been trying to get rid of you for years. I'm pretty sure that's not the case.
So he's a bad texter.
Now... his is a communication problem (the bad texting).
You, however should not be questioning whether your friends might think you're weird because you sent them a funny face picture. They're your friends. They're supposed to know you're weird.
You mentioned that you had tried to talk to him at some point about his bad texting. I think you need to talk to him again. But you need to explain to him how he's making you feel. He doesn't mean to. And he doesn't know he's doing it.
Talking to him might not (probably won't) make him a better texter. He might make an effort. But he probably never will be very wordy. But, when you lay it out to him... he will understand where you're coming from. He doesn't know he's doing it, but can see it when you bring it to his attention.
So, even if you still get 'k' in the future... hopefully what he has to say during that conversation will help reassure you that he really does love when you send him stuff even when he just says 'k'. And that he values your friendship. Honestly. The easiest thing to do would be to show him your post. In all seriousness.
You guys are having a problem in communication. You can talk this one out. But you have to be open and honest about how he's making you feel. Good luck
I support the bumble idea 100% hard to explain why he ignoted you but don't overthink it keep going forward.
Bumble for friends might be a good option just be sure to meet girls not guys even if guys swear on their mothers to only wanna be friends they would jump into your pants the second they see a crack (loosly quoting Steve Harvey)
It's random but it's not very popping either. Its kinda like a meh funny picture. It's a good attempt! And I think you can make a good one but its something that involves trial and error. But I agree, he should have at least responded and I agree, some girlfriends would be good
Some people are just like that. Can't be upset with some for not being the way you want them to be. If you were to send me that I'd probably give a dry response too.
I don’t know why everything always ends for me (every friendship) the only thing that has lasted is my relationship but just everyone else just kinda forgets about me. To make things worse I have like 11 cousins on my moms side and none of them even care about me not even one.
No one else lives a perfect life. Some may be fortunate. Some may have to the one you wish you had, be none of us are perfect. We all have something. Many people don't have a lot of friends or any at all. A lot of people aren't close with their families. You are not alone.
Thank you just today I was sad because of the whole cousin thing I think people just tend to disappoint me. I was kind of sad holding back tears today because I felt like none of my cousins cared about me. I just always worry about something
The only reason this person is your “friend” is because that’s where you draw the line... Guys do NOT have females in their life outside of family, that they don’t want to have sex with... therefore, that pic was a turn off.
Exactly... you don’t care because he is nothing to you. He doesn’t see you that way, he is just hanging around hoping you will someday change your mind.
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