Why Did I Loose Attraction To HIm?

[Anonymous]

I worked with this guy I was extremely attracted too. I wanted him so bad. I even approached him a couple times only to get rejected. When I quit my job I would still think of this guy constantly. I just saw him yesterday; almost a year of quitting my old job. I hardly recognized him but he was still somewhat attractive. My heart was not fluttering like it use to when we worked together. I saw him yesterday and it was like seeing any ordinary guy in the street. I felt nothing. In a way I felt disgust towards him. I don't know why. We didn't speak or anything. I mean this guy treated me like crap the whole time we worked together and I still desired him. He flat out rejected me so rudely. Why do I not feel so strongly towards him like I use to. I am not involved with someone else. Please help me understand.

[Guy13]

Proximity of location and women are emotional. Connection comes from presence. Women tend to inviolable themselves emotionally in men they love. That’s why long-distance relationships never work.
—From a guy’s point of view, you were ready for the taking. I don’t know why he didn’t get it…

[Fireguy17]

you have moved on.
he was clearly not interested in you, he rejected you, but sometimes that actually makes you want him more, most people do not like rejection, but it is part of life.
Once you moved on, you separated yourself from him, the attraction faded so you pretty much lost interest in him.
things like this happen, it is very normal.
Time to go find someone else that won't reject you and you will make his heart flutter.

[eblehe]

He rejected you and you got over him. Good for you. Don't think about him anymore.

[Anonymous]

For whatever reason, you had some infatuation with him at the time, Now you just see him as he is. Maybe you got caught up in the idea of him or love or something like that at the time, and weren't necessarily thinking realistically? I'm just guessing, but I'd be looking at that also. What had you so wrapped up in him at the time? Maybe it was just physical attraction, and he changed just enough that he doesn't have the same impact? Combined with the rejection.

[Asker]

He look like The Weeknd, the singer. That's what attracted me to this guy so much.

[Vikkrram]

He rejected you then moove on i know it's hard but when you know that nothing is gonna happen so why false hope now...

[sopkat23]

Feelings change. Nothing you can do.