Why do guys bend over backwards for some girls and when you care about them, they neglect you?

Anonymous
I just wonder why some guys are fine neglecting and not caring about a girl who loves them and supports them... but other girls they will go out of thier way for? I don't know if they are also loving and supporting too. Just... I feel like every guy I've ever loved or supported neglects me. And most of the time won't even feel bad about it but acts surprised when I some day do leave. They don't beg me to come back so I guess surprise comes from the fact I got tired of being neglected.

What do guys see in a girl they would go miles for? What is her personality like that makes her so much more if a catch to them?
Why do guys bend over backwards for some girls and when you care about them, they neglect you?
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