Why do guys bend over backwards for some girls and when you care about them, they neglect you?

[Anonymous]

I just wonder why some guys are fine neglecting and not caring about a girl who loves them and supports them... but other girls they will go out of thier way for? I don't know if they are also loving and supporting too. Just... I feel like every guy I've ever loved or supported neglects me. And most of the time won't even feel bad about it but acts surprised when I some day do leave. They don't beg me to come back so I guess surprise comes from the fact I got tired of being neglected.

What do guys see in a girl they would go miles for? What is her personality like that makes her so much more if a catch to them?

[Anonymous]

We could ask you the same question about women.
Why do so many of you chase after the same guy. Fight over him even. When he could care less about you and ignore a guy that would give you the world?
Attraction! It completely mangles logic. Lol " the heart wants what it wants"... no matter how illogical.

[Asker]

Guess I'm not very attractive or something is wrong with me

[FilmGuy93]

Same reason that immature ladies do the same thing; people don't know how to appreciate a good thing when they have it.

[Anonymous]

That happens when you're nice or just plain attractive and don't have much guys wanting you