Why does my work crush act so hot and then avoidant?

Anonymous
So we have this inside joke that he always initiates about me dating this co-worker that not many people enjoy being around, he always jokes about setting us up, cuz he knows he’ll get a reaction. Two weeks ago he said he was sore and asked me to rub his shoulders, I was turned on instantly, but I just joked it off “Me? Rub your shoulders? Nah” all of me wanted to. He’s bought me snacks and suggested some pretty sappy love songs for me to listen to. He always picks with me, so I naturally assume we’re feeling one another, then he gets distant and weird like he’s avoiding me. I don't know what to think, but I really want this guy. What do you think his deal is?
Why does my work crush act so hot and then avoidant?
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