Blocked me after first date?

[Anonymous]

So last year I was speaking to a guy on Instagram and after a month or two of speaking he kept asking me to go out with him. So I went on a small date. The date was quite awkward and I didn’t enjoy it (he left early because he had something to do) I didn’t really care because I wanted it to end asap.
But before he left he told me to text him as soon as I got home etc but I didn’t and we both just didn’t talk to eachother for a week.
I go to check my Instagram and other social media platforms I was on and he’s blocked me everywhere lol.
I just wonder as to why you would block someone randomly. What do you guys think?

[btbc92]

Simple, because he wants to treat you the same way how a lot of men feel when women choose to reject the guy. He wants to feel empowered and in control. He never wanted to date you were supposed to get to know you over cuz he wanted to see you for who you are as a person. He did it just to get a sense of self validation and ego boost so that way he can tell everybody else how he treated you bad. He's doing it to shame and hurt you.

[Asker]

Thanks for your response! In all honesty he didn’t really treat me bad at all. He just blocked me out of nowhere which was weird and I wondered why - guess we’ll never know!

[btbc92]

No, he did not just block you out of nowhere. I just told you why. He wants to have the satisfaction in treating you like crap. If he was any kind of decent man there wouldn't be any need for him to block you. I never dated at all, and I wouldn't dare be getting some random guy, let alone the person I don't even know. If somebody did something like that, trust me, nine out of 10 times he has proven himself to be who he actually is. There was no logical reason for him to block you.

[btbc92]

He did that so that way you won't grow attached to him and he's so you won't bother him. That way when he could find other women, he can be with women that he wants to grow attached to.

[Asker]

Facts lol you’re right.

[Asker]

Thing is, I think I made it obvious I wasn’t interested after not texting him after the date when he told me to. So a week later he just blocked me i probs hurt his ego too

[btbc92]

Listen. That's not your fault. There's no way you can be interested because you're just met the guy. You got to get to know him as friends and these guys today they don't want to be your friend. They're looking for Mather could sleep with parents since you're telling him that you're not interested in sleeping with him basically, he wants to find a woman who is. It's not so much that you hurt his ego is the fact that he doesn't want any connection to somebody that he is not going to lay up with. Because a guy that really cares is going to at least try to get to know you even if you both aren't going to be together. But the last thing somebody that is selfish like that once is to see you dating and sleeping with others. But meanwhile they say they care about you. Again, how can they care about you when they barely even know you? That's why I don't get close to people who are not good for me. I would never treat anybody bad and I'm open to Friendship but these days people aren't open to that anymore. They don't want that. They want sex and they want the game things sexually. That's what they've been programmed to do, that's what they've been told. So you're the one that ends up her simply because they want more and you're not willing to offer more. This is where a lot of men they don't get it. But then again women do the same thing too. So I say is for those who choose to do it and they don't get it. So I don't know what you're about, but if you want something really serious, my advice to you is don't be with a man who's going to disrespect you and not care about your well-being. A man who's not willing and open to Friendship is not somebody you want to be with. because they would treat you like this when you can't offer them what they want.

[Avicenna]

Probably because you never texted him, meaning he doesn't want to hear from you again. It's no loss.

[Asker]

Makes sense tbh! Thanks for the response

[Avicenna]

Sure, no problem

[spartan55]

Why does it matter? You two didn't dig each other obviously. Just take the L and move on.

[Asker]

Because I haven’t been blocked ever lool unless it’s after a disagreement or argument. So it didn’t make sense

[spartan55]

Okay... I'm still waiting for the big deal.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Maybe bkoz you didn't put effort to talk and it's hits his ego. Lol

[Asker]

So it wasn’t because the date was awks? Lol

[Sam_The_Savage]

Nah.

[Anonymous]

Its always for a reason. I always block girls after a date if I find deal-breakers.

[Asker]

was the problem that I didn’t message after the date when he told me to?

[Opinion Owner]

Eh could have been that, but could have been a lot of other things too

[Asker]

makes sense, the date was quite awks overall I felt like I was being interrogated

[disgustingweebtrash]

Lol.

[Asker]

very informative ty